Elder Care Decision Challenges

Summary

When an elderly individual can make their own decisions but their living situation is unsafe, consider contacting Adult Protective Services for an assessment. Consulting with a social worker can help develop a care plan. If PACE insists on returning the individual to an unsafe environment, document safety concerns and request a re-evaluation. Involving family or friends for support and seeking mediation with PACE may also be beneficial.

Full Conversation

No, she has no POA and legal guardain wont work because she is in the right state of mind
It sounds like you want to ensure your mom's safety and well-being. Here are some steps you can consider:
- Contact Adult Protective Services (APS): They can assess the situation and provide assistance.
- Consult with a social worker: They can help develop a care plan for your mom.
- Explore alternative living arrangements: Such as assisted living facilities or in-home care services.
Is there any specific information or help you need regarding these options?
I have spoken with the social worker at PACE and told her she can not come back here but they are saying its up to her since she can make her own decisions
It sounds like you're in a tough situation. Since your mom can make her own decisions and PACE is insisting she returns to your home, you might consider the following:
- Document your concerns: Write down all the reasons why it's not safe for your mom to return home.
- Seek legal advice: Consulting with an elder law attorney can provide guidance on how to proceed.
Would you like information on how to find a local elder law attorney in Virginia?
Elder attorney wont help becasue she can make her own decisons
Case Rating: *
It seems like you're dealing with a challenging situation. Here are a few more options you could consider:
- Involve Family or Friends: If any family members or friends can assist in caring for your mom temporarily or provide additional support.
- Re-evaluate PACE's Decision: Request a meeting with PACE to discuss your concerns in detail, possibly with a mediator.
If you need more specific legal assistance or other resources, please let me know!
We have no one else to take care of her and this is MY house and i refuse to be held responsible if she keeps falling
Case Rating: *
It sounds like a very difficult situation. Your concerns about your mom's safety and your own responsibilities are valid. Here are some steps you might consider:
- Document Safety Concerns: Keep a detailed record of all incidents and reasons why your home isn't safe for her.
- Request a PACE Re-evaluation: Insist on another meeting or evaluation with PACE, possibly including an advocate or mediator.
- Adult Protective Services (APS): Contact APS again for further assistance.
Is there anything else specific you need help with?