Elder Care Options Virginia

Summary

In Virginia, you are not legally required to care for your mom at home if its unsafe. Adults who can make their own decisions cannot be forced into assisted living or nursing homes. Consider guardianship if she cant make safe decisions. Explore in-home care, subsidized senior housing, or respite care. Contact the Virginia Department for Aging and Rehabilitative Services or geriatric care managers for resources and support.

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She keeps saying she doesn’t want to go to assisted living or a nursing home I spoke with pace social worker she goes though them and they are telling me they can’t make her go to those places
It sounds like a tough situation. In Virginia, adults who can make their own decisions cannot be forced into assisted living or nursing homes against their will. However, if her living situation is unsafe, you might consider:
- Seeking a guardianship arrangement if she is deemed unable to make safe decisions.
- Working with social workers to find safer in-home care solutions.
Would you like more information on guardianship options in Virginia?
She can’t be here because I work from home and I don’t want anyone in my house. But it’s not safe for her to come back here
It sounds like you're in a challenging situation. Here are a few options to consider:
- Guardianship: If your mom can't make safe decisions, you could seek guardianship.
- In-Home Care: Look into professional in-home care services that can assist her while you work.
- Alternative Housing: Explore other housing options like subsidized senior housing.
Would you like more information on any of these options?
I can’t do in home care and she refuses alternative housing
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It seems like you are in a tough spot. Here are a few more options to consider:
- Guardianship: If your mom can't make safe decisions, you could seek guardianship.
- Subsidized Senior Housing: Explore other housing options that are affordable for seniors.
Would you like more information on guardianship options in Virginia?
She can make her own decisions but it’s not safe for her to come here
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It sounds like your mom's ability to make decisions complicates things. Since she can make her own decisions but it's unsafe for her to stay with you, you might want to consider:
- Seeking temporary respite care.
- Consulting with elder care specialists for alternative solutions.
Would you like more information on respite care or elder care specialists?
Elder care
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It seems you're in a difficult situation with your mom's care. Here are some resources and options for elder care in Virginia:
- Elder Care Specialists: They can help assess your mom’s needs and create a care plan.
- Respite Care: Provides temporary relief for primary caregivers, allowing you to take a break while ensuring your mom is cared for.
Do you need more specific information or assistance connecting with elder care specialists in your area?
Elder care specialist
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It sounds like you could benefit from talking to an elder care specialist to find a safe and suitable living arrangement for your mom.
Here are some steps you might consider:
- Contact local Area Agency on Aging for resources.
- Seek advice from a geriatric care manager.
Would you like more specific information on connecting with elder care specialists in Virginia?
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Since you are looking for assistance with elder care specialists, here are some steps you can take:
- Contact the Virginia Department for Aging and Rehabilitative Services (DARS) for resources and support.
- Look into geriatric care managers who can help create a care plan tailored to your mom's needs.
Would you like specific contact information for these resources?
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Here are some contacts that may assist you:

Virginia Department for Aging and Rehabilitative Services (DARS)


Phone: (*) *-*
Website: www.vadars.org

Geriatric Care Managers in Virginia


Website: www.aginglifecare.org

I hope these resources help you find the support you need for your mom's care.