Elderly Care Decision Rights

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If your mother is of sound mind, she can decide where to live, but you can refuse entry to your home. Contact APS for safety evaluation and legal advice.

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My disabled mom lives in my house with me, she has a muscle disease and keeps falling and she's currently in the nursing home right now getting rehab from a fall. She goes through PACE and shes in the right sound of mind. I told my mom and the nurses from PACE and the social workers from PACE that i do not want her back here it is not safe for her to be here, but my mom refuses to go anywhere else but here. Can i deny her to come back here?
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. You may need to contact an elder law attorney to discuss your specific rights and obligations. Generally, if your home is not safe for her, you might have a valid reason to refuse. Have you considered exploring alternative care options or facilities that could better accommodate her needs?
I have spoke with a Elder care lawyer and they dont help becasue she is in the right sound of mind. she will not agree to any other facilities. But i can NOT take care of her i work a full time job
It sounds like a challenging situation. Since your mom is of sound mind and refuses to move to another facility, you may need to explore other options. Here are a few steps you can consider:
- Contact Adult Protective Services (APS): They can evaluate the situation and provide guidance.
- Consult with a social worker: They can assist with care planning and finding suitable resources.
- Consider in-home care services: They can provide the necessary support while allowing her to stay at home.
Would you like more information on any of these options?
I spoke with a social worker and they said that they cant make her if she refuses
It sounds like a tough situation. Since your mom is of sound mind and refuses to move, you might consider:
- In-Home Care Services: Hiring professional caregivers can help manage her needs while allowing her to stay home.
- Respite Care: Provides temporary relief for you by taking care of her for short periods.
Would you like more details on these options?
I do not want anyone in my home. I work from home
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This is indeed a complex situation. Here are some alternative steps you might consider:
- Adult Protective Services (APS): They can intervene and assess the situation for potential elder abuse or neglect.
- Seek Legal Advice: Another consultation with an elder law attorney might provide different perspectives or options.
Would you like assistance with any of these steps?
will PACE still bring her back here after i told them not to?
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PACE may still bring her back if she insists, as she is of sound mind and has the right to make her own decisions. However, you may want to:
- Contact Adult Protective Services (APS) for evaluation.
- Consult with another elder law attorney for additional advice.
Would you like more information on contacting APS or finding another elder law attorney?
this is my house and i will not be held responsible if she keeps getting hurt!
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This is a challenging situation. Since your mother is of sound mind, she has the right to make her own decisions, but it's also important to ensure her safety and well-being. Here are a few steps you might consider:
- Contact Adult Protective Services (APS): They can evaluate the situation and may provide guidance.
- Consult another elder law attorney: They might offer different perspectives or options.
Would you like more information on contacting APS or finding another elder law attorney?
what will aps do
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Adult Protective Services (APS) can evaluate your mother's situation to ensure her safety and well-being. They might:
- Assess for potential abuse or neglect.
- Provide resources and recommendations for care.
- Intervene if they find any immediate risks to her safety.
Would you like more details on contacting APS or any other advice?
will speaking with a lawyer make them not take her back here
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Speaking with a lawyer might not stop PACE from bringing your mom back if she insists, but they can help you understand your legal rights and options. Have you tried contacting APS for an evaluation to ensure her safety and well-being?
So i have no choice other than to let her back here even though shes at risk for hurting herself
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It sounds like you're in a tough spot. Since your mom is of sound mind and wants to return home, you might have limited options. Here are a few things to consider:
- Contact APS: They can assess the situation and provide guidance.
- Consult an elder law attorney again: They may offer different perspectives.
- Explore alternative care options: Even if your mom refuses, discussing possible solutions with professionals might help.
Would you like more information on contacting APS or finding another elder law attorney?
So i have no right on who comes to my house
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I'm really sorry you're going through this. Since your mom is of sound mind, she has the right to decide where she wants to live. However, you do have the right to refuse anyone entry into your home. Contacting APS might help ensure her safety and well-being. Would you like more information on how to reach APS?
should i call and speak with the cops
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It might be helpful to call and speak with the police if you feel that your mother's safety is at immediate risk or there may be an issue with her well-being. They can provide immediate assistance and guidance.
Would you like any further information on contacting APS or exploring other care options?