Narcissist Interfering Child Support

Summary

If a third party is interfering in your child support case by hiding assets and impersonating the non-custodial parent, focus on presenting documented evidence. In Illinois, evidence of money transfers and impersonation can support your claims. If your attorneys are not addressing these issues, consider seeking a third opinion or filing a complaint with the Illinois Attorney Registration & Disciplinary Commission. Self-representation can be challenging but allows you to control the narrative. Ensure you understand Illinois child support laws, stay organized, and follow court procedures. If a Motion to Dismiss is filed against your Motion to Reconsider, you can appeal. Report any unethical behavior by attorneys to the Illinois Attorney Registration & Disciplinary Commission. Focus on actions impacting the case and the welfare of the children.

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Do you know what a narcissist is
Hello Lula, as an AI, I'm here to help with legal issues. In psychological terms, a narcissist is someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, characterized by excessive need for admiration, disregard for others' feelings, and lack of empathy. If you're dealing with a narcissist legally, could you please elaborate on your situation?
I have a ongoing child support case strictly child support in Chicago Illinois cook county that’s been going on for a little bit over two years now As the non-custodial parents girlfriend who is a covert narcissist has been interfering in this child support case by keeping the non-custodial parents assets and money hidden under her name who has been impersonating the non-custodial parent to the children to the attorneys and to me and then she plays the innocent victim
I understand your situation, Lula. To assist further, could you clarify if there's any concrete evidence of her impersonating the non-custodial parent or hiding assets under her name?
I have documented evidence since July *, * everything from emails to the non-custodial parents bank statements showing his money being transferred through Zell an Apple Cash to the girlfriend and her adult children
Thank you for sharing these details, Lula. It sounds like you have a solid base of evidence. In Illinois:
- Evidence of money transfers can support claims of hidden assets.
- Impersonation is a crime, which could affect your case.
You might want to consider seeking legal counsel to better address these issues.
I already had two attorneys for this case and both attorneys did not and would not bring up any of that information or provide any of that evidence to the judge oh I don’t understand why
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, Lula. It's possible your attorneys had reasons based on their professional judgment. You may seek a third opinion or request your current attorney to explain their strategy. If unsatisfied, you can consider filing a complaint with the Illinois Attorney Registration & Disciplinary Commission.
I took it upon myself to represent myself as I will not hide or keep anything from the child support judge about the non-custodial’s parents girlfriend
That's understandable, Lula. Self-representation can be challenging but it gives you control. Keep in mind:
- Be prepared: Understand Illinois child support laws.
- Be organized: Have your evidence ready.
- Be respectful: Follow court procedures and etiquette.
- Seek help: Free legal clinics can provide guidance.
I have already filed a motion to reconsider filled with actual fax backed up by documented evidence that I have already electronically e-filed and exhibits after I filed my motion to reconsider the opposing parties attorney which is the non-custodial parent his girlfriend interfered by having his attorney file a motion to dismiss my motion to reconsider which I found ridiculous as an attorney she knows that’s a motion to dismiss cannot be used against a motion to reconsider child support This was done as the noncustodial parents girlfriend is attempting to keep his assets and money hidden for personal gain
In Illinois:
- A Motion to Dismiss can't usually dismiss a Motion to Reconsider.
- If the judge grants the Motion to Dismiss, you can appeal.
- Keep presenting your evidence and remain consistent in your argument.
You might want to consider seeking advice from a legal clinic or another attorney for strategy.
What I also find disturbing is the respondents attorney after she was provided via email documented evidence that the respondent provided his ex employers information for the purpose of having wages withheld after the judge made her decision based on false information presented to her by the respondent attorney she did not seem concerned that the court was lied to and manipulated
I understand your concern, Lula. In Illinois:
- If you believe an attorney has acted unethically, you can report them to the Illinois Attorney Registration & Disciplinary Commission.
- Keep documenting all interactions and continue to present your evidence in court.
- Remember, judges rely on the evidence presented to them. Keep pushing for truth.
How do I expose the respondents girlfriend who is a Narcissist to the Judge without mentioning that she’s a narcissist will my emails that I have documented where this girlfriend is impersonating the respondent to the children where she told on herself by messing up in the email and got caught help
To expose the respondent's girlfriend's actions in court:
- Present your documented evidence.
- Focus on actions that directly impact your case, like impersonation and hiding assets.
- Avoid labeling her as a narcissist. Let the evidence speak.
- Keep your arguments factual and backed by evidence.
That’s exactly what I have been doing like for example in my motion to reconsider I described the girlfriends actions and pattern of behavior With documented evidence I also explained the girlfriends pattern of behavior and actions in my opposition to the respondents motion to dismiss also provided documented evidence in exhibits I’ve also provided an exhibit the respondents bank statements showing the Zelle payments and Apple Cash being sent to the girlfriend and her sons they also provide evidence that She has intentionally been in personating responding to the children and has inflicted intentional emotional and psychological and mental along with financial distress and the children
You're doing well by focusing on evidence and factual information. Keep doing that. In Illinois:
- Present evidence of the girlfriend's actions impacting the case.
- Show how these actions have harmed the children.
- Maintain your focus on the welfare of the children, as courts prioritize this.