Protecting Children From Abusive Father

Summary

In california, you can file for a modification of the custody order if its in the best interest of the child. If you fear for your childrens safety, you can request an emergency custody order. Gather evidence of abuse or neglect, such as text messages, and consult with a legal professional for guidance.

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I have a * and 15 year old there father has custody but for the last 3 months they live with me go to school where i live there very scared of there father and he says he's coming to take them and moving to another state what should i do
Have you considered filing for a modification of the custody order in California due to change in circumstances?

General Information:
- California law allows modification if it's in the best interest of the child.
- Contact your local family court for more details.
Im trying it takes time but he can just come get them in the meantime and leave state right
In California, it's illegal to violate a custody order. If you fear he might take them, you can request an emergency custody order. Contact your local family court immediately.
I did they said i have to show proof of why it's emergency all i have is what my kids say and what i know
What kind of proof or evidence do your children have to support their fear of their father?
Hes an alcoholic and abusuve to them
In California, child abuse and neglect are serious offenses. Have your children documented any incidents? This could be crucial evidence in court.
No but i know its true its why we're not together anymore plus before they gave him custody he was arrested for child indangerment
Have you reported the current situation to Child Protective Services? They can conduct an investigation which could help your case.
No i don't trust those people they messed my kids lifes up the last time i got them involved
I understand your concerns. However, it's important to ensure your children's safety. Have you considered seeking help from a local non-profit organization or a trusted attorney?
I don't have the money i work hard but they take * out of my check for child support to him
I understand your situation. Have you considered seeking free or low-cost legal aid services in California? They can help you navigate this process.
No im just need to keep him from coming and taking them right now
Have you considered obtaining a restraining order against him for the safety of your children? In California, you can request a restraining order if you fear for your children's safety.
Yeah but i have to have proof right
Yes, you generally need some form of evidence. Have you or your children documented any incidents of abuse or neglect?
I have text messages from is girlfriend that says he left them for 4 days alone why is was drunk over at a friend's and a message from my daughter saying he picked them up drunk
These text messages could serve as evidence. You should consult with a legal professional to understand how to properly present this in court.