Noncustodial Parent Financial Deception

Summary

The respondents girlfriend is impersonating him in emails, making false claims, and using aggressive language to discourage him from contributing to their sons college expenses. She is also trying to conceal his finances and assets for personal gain, and the respondents attorney, despite being aware of this, is dismissing the evidence. This intentional financial deprivation is undermining the childrens educational opportunities. The girlfriends actions have been ongoing since July 3, 2020, causing financial, emotional, psychological, and mental distress to the children. The judge may re-evaluate the attorneys actions, scrutinize the respondents financial status, and reassess the respondents obligations.

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I’ve filed a petition for full coverage of educational expenses for my twin 18 year old sons who are graduating from high school this month against the noncustodial parent in Chicago Illinois cook county
Hello Alisa, in Illinois, a noncustodial parent can be ordered to help pay for an adult child's education expenses. Some factors the court considers are:
- Financial resources of both parents
- Standard of living the child would have enjoyed had the marriage not been dissolved
- Financial resources of the child
More details can be found under the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution of Marriage Act (* ILCS */*).
So I need help understanding and figuring out how to properly and a simple summary or paragraph state that upon my sending copies of the boys financial aid award letters and a copy of an email from the office of concordia university with the monthly breakdown of the boys tuition costs to the respondents attorney and to the respondent and shortly after I’ve begun receiving email responses from the respondents girlfriend impersonating the respondent with aggressive abusive and threatening emails Attempting to keep the respondents money hidden so the respondent will not cover our sons college tuitions how do I simply state that in a short summary or statement or simple paragraph
"After sharing financial aid letters and tuition costs with the respondent and his attorney, I've received aggressive emails from his girlfriend, allegedly impersonating him, aiming to conceal his finances to evade contributing to our sons' college expenses."
And how would I simply state that If the court does not recognize or notice this interference which is a threat to the boys college education they will not be able to attend college
"If the court doesn't acknowledge this interference, it jeopardizes my sons' ability to afford college, thus hindering their educational opportunities."
Can I provide some of the texts from the email responses I received so I can give you a more of an understanding
Yes, Alisa. Please feel free to share the texts of the email responses you received. However, remember to remove any sensitive personal information for privacy reasons.
First email response I received stated for the boys to get A student loan and a job because they are * so they’re adults and need to fend for themselves also stating for the children to go to hell How do I explained that simply
"The first email response suggested that our sons, being *, should get student loans and jobs to fend for themselves, and included an inappropriate comment about their future. This insinuates a refusal to contribute to their college expenses."
Now these emails were written by the respondents girlfriend impersonating him while the respondent is fully supporting and providing for her sons who are all over the age of * documented evidence I will be providing will show that so I’m trying to figure out an understand how do I simply Explain to us and a small paragraph or a small summary
"The respondent's girlfriend, while impersonating him in emails, opposes his financial contribution to our sons' education. Meanwhile, he supports her adult sons. I have evidence to prove this disparity."
I also need to know how to simply state that I have provided overwhelming documented evidence to the respondents attorney explaining to her that the disturbing emails Are being written by the respondents girlfriend but the attorney continue to file frivolous motions to dismiss my evidence and my motions labeling my descriptions of the behavior and financial and emotional distress inflicted on the children by the respondents girlfriend as my own narratives and accusations and now the respondents girlfriend tagged the respondents attorney in one of her responses to the College expenses stating for the children to go to hell that the children are dead also stating for the children to get hit by a car and die Meaning that the respondent attorney was made aware and provided documented evidence of this behavior knew that the children were being financially deprived and now she is literally tagged in one of the emails how do I explained that simply and shortly and a simple short paragraph
"I have presented substantial evidence to the respondent's attorney clarifying that the disruptive emails are authored by the respondent's girlfriend. However, the attorney persists in dismissing my evidence and claims, labeling them as personal narratives. The attorney was tagged in an email that explicitly expressed harmful intent towards my children, proving her awareness of the situation."
How do I also incorporate into that data attorney is also well aware that the children were being intentionally financially deprived as all the respondents money is going to the girlfriend and her five sons which three of them are well over the age of * But she tried to strike the evidence
"The attorney is cognizant of the intentional financial deprivation our children are facing, as the respondent's funds are directed towards his girlfriend and her adult sons. Despite this awareness, she attempted to strike the evidence."
Just out of curiosity What possible reactions can the judge have to all of this seeing the emails and finding out that the attorney actually was aware of all of it
Upon reviewing the presented evidence and understanding the attorney's knowledge of the situation, the judge may:
- Re-evaluate the attorney's actions
- Scrutinize the respondent's financial status
- Reassess the respondent's obligation towards your sons' expenses
- Possibly sanction the attorney for ethical violations.
I also want to know if I have a better chance in getting the judge to rule in favor of the respondent to fully cover our twin sons college tuitions After reading the emails as they are aggressive direct fall and abusive
Judges consider all evidence when making a decision. Aggressive and abusive emails may sway the judge, but factors like parental finances, standard of living, and your sons' needs will also be important. The judge's aim is to ensure fair treatment for all parties.
I also have overwhelming documented evidence that the respondent was paying tuition for his girlfriends sons who are over * and also have evidence of the huge amount of money being transferred to the girlfriend and her sons via Zell and Apple Cash that combined with the abusive emails threatening to college education for the boys will it help the judge ruled in my favor
Evidence of the respondent directing significant funds to his girlfriend's adult sons while refusing to support your sons can certainly strengthen your case. The judge may view this as an intentional evasion of financial responsibilities.
How can I simply state an a short summary or a simple single paragraph that the respondents girlfriend is intentionally trying to keep the respondents finances and assets hidden under her name in order to prevent him from financially supporting the childrens College education and child support payments for self gain
"The respondent's girlfriend is deliberately concealing the respondent's finances and assets under her name to hinder him from financially contributing to our children's college education and child support payments, seemingly for personal benefit."
And how would I also simply in a brief short summary or single paragraph states that the respondents girlfriend while in personating him is making numerous false claims in the emails saying false claims that were listed in the pretrial memorandum by falsely claiming to have a child with a respondent in order to keep the respondent from covering the children’s college tuition and pay child support her aggressive emails while impersonating the Respondent
"The respondent's girlfriend, posing as him in emails, is making numerous false claims, such as having a child with the respondent, with the apparent goal of preventing him from contributing to our children's college tuition and child support payments."
How can I simply state all of this and the most simple way short summary or paragraph
"The respondent's girlfriend is impersonating him in emails, making false claims and using aggressive language to discourage him from contributing to our sons' college expenses. She is also trying to conceal his finances and assets for personal gain, and the respondent's attorney, despite being aware of this, is dismissing my evidence. This intentional financial deprivation is undermining my sons' educational opportunities."
She’s doing all of that to deceive the court and hide the respondents finances and assets for the benefit of her self and her five sons who are not biologically connected to the respondent as she has been doing this And has succeeded and financially depriving the children since July *, *
"The respondent's girlfriend is deceiving the court and concealing the respondent's finances and assets for her own advantage and that of her five unrelated sons. This has been ongoing, successfully depriving my children of financial support since July *, *."
And also for example If she also is falsely claiming to have been pregnant from the respondent in which died at birth and has revenge against the children even though the respondent was not the father how can you explain that simply
"She falsely claims she was pregnant with the respondent's child who, sadly, did not survive. She harbors resentment towards our children despite the respondent not being the father of her alleged child."
The emails clearly show her resentment and hatred and intentional infliction of financial emotional psychological and mental distress on the children they also show her desire to cause them harm and death How do I explain this in a simple way to the child support judge
The emails clearly show her resentment and hatred and intentional infliction of financial emotional psychological and mental distress on the children they also show her desire to cause them harm and death How do I explain this in a simple way to the child Judge
"The emails, filled with resentment and hatred, highlight her intention to inflict financial, emotional, psychological, and mental distress on our children. They even suggest a desire to cause them harm, which is deeply concerning and needs to be addressed in court."
She’s been doing all of this while impersonating the respondent she has managed to financially deprive the children and alienate the children from their father since July *, *
"The respondent's girlfriend, impersonating him, has financially deprived and alienated our children from their father since July *, *. How can this situation be addressed in court?"