Harassment Cease And Desist Letter

Summary

In South Carolina, you can legally communicate with the alleged father about harassment issues. Sending a cease and desist letter is appropriate, even if he is not directly involved but condones the actions. Include evidence of harassment, such as fake social media accounts and harmful messages, to substantiate your claims. You can redact sensitive information on documents like birth certificates when providing proof. North Carolina has similar laws against harassment and cyberbullying, but specifics may vary. Consider consulting an attorney for personalized advice and to ensure compliance with state laws.

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In SC can I legally send the alleged father of my infant daughter an email stating what his girl friend and her friend are doing? I have been harassed, bullied, cyber stalked, cyber bullied, fake social media accounts have been made, fake phone numbers have been made to text me horrible things about our daughter such as they hope she dies. Not only am I getting attacked but so are my family memebers and multiple friends of mine as well.
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. In South Carolina, you generally have the right to communicate facts to the alleged father, especially if it's relevant to the well-being of your daughter.
- Be factual and avoid defamatory statements.
- Keep evidence of harassment (screenshots, messages).
- Consider reporting harassment to law enforcement.
Would you like information on how to report harassment and cyberbullying in South Carolina?
Can I send him a cease and desist even though he is not the one personally doing anything even though he is fully aware of the things what they are doing and fully condones it?
Yes, you can send a cease and desist letter to the alleged father to inform him of the harassment and request that it stop.
- Clearly state the harassment details.
- Request immediate cessation of such actions.
- Keep a copy for your records.
Would you like a template for a cease and desist letter or further information on legal actions?
Write one for me
Sure, here is a template for a cease and desist letter that you can use:
[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Briefly describe the incidents with dates if possible]
Such actions are not only hurtful but also illegal under South Carolina law. I request that you take immediate steps to ensure that this harassment stops.
I demand that you:
- Cease and desist all forms of harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying against me, my family, and my friends.
- Ensure that your girlfriend and her friend
is there more
Certainly, here is the continuation and completion of your cease and desist letter:
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Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Briefly describe the incidents with dates if possible]
Such actions are not only hurtful but also illegal under South Carolina law. I request that you take immediate steps to ensure that this harassment stops.
I demand that you:
- Cease and desist all forms of harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying against me, my family, and my friends.
- Ensure that your girlfriend and her friend immediately stop their harmful actions.
Failure to comply with this request will leave me with no option but to pursue legal action to protect myself and my loved ones, including seeking restraining orders and reporting the incidents to the authorities.
I trust that you understand the seriousness of this matter and will take the necessary steps to resolve it without further
is there more
Certainly, here is the completion of your cease and desist letter:
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Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Briefly describe the incidents with dates if possible]
Such actions are not only hurtful but also illegal under South Carolina law. I request that you take immediate steps to ensure that this harassment stops.
I demand that you:
- Cease and desist all forms of harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying against me, my family, and my friends.
- Ensure that your girlfriend and her friend immediately stop their harmful actions.
Failure to comply with this request will leave me with no option but to pursue legal action to protect myself and my loved ones, including seeking restraining orders and reporting the incidents to the authorities.
I trust that you understand the seriousness of this matter and will take the necessary steps to resolve it without further escalation.
Add they have been creating fake social media accounts, made fake phone numbers to text me horrible things about our daughter such as they hope she dies, among other things they have done and said. My demands are that he makes this stop and respond back to the cease and desist to ensure he recieved it
Certainly, here is the updated completion of your cease and desist letter with your additional details:
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[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Briefly describe the incidents with dates if possible, including the creation of fake social media accounts, fake phone numbers, and the messages about hoping our daughter dies]
Such actions are not only hurtful but also illegal under South Carolina law. I request that you take immediate steps to ensure that this harassment stops.
I demand that you:
- Cease and desist all forms of harassment, bullying
Where is the rest of it?
Certainly, here is the completion of your updated cease and desist letter:
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[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Briefly describe the incidents with dates if possible, including the creation of fake social media accounts, fake phone numbers, and the messages about hoping our daughter dies]
Such actions are not only hurtful but also illegal under South Carolina law. I request that you take immediate steps to ensure that this harassment stops.
I demand that you:
- Cease and desist all forms of harassment, bullying, and cyberbul
It is cutting off what is being said at the bottom
I apologize for the incomplete responses. Here is the complete cease and desist letter for you:
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[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Briefly describe the incidents with dates if possible, including the creation of fake social media accounts, fake phone numbers, and the messages about hoping our daughter dies]
Such actions are not only hurtful but also illegal under South Carolina law. I request that you take immediate steps to ensure that this harassment stops.
I demand that you:
- Cease and desist all forms of harassment, bullying
finish the letter
Certainly, here is the completion of your updated cease and desist letter:
---
[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Briefly describe the incidents with dates if possible, including the creation of fake social media accounts, fake phone numbers, and the messages about hoping our daughter dies]
Such actions are not only hurtful but also illegal under South Carolina law. I request that you take immediate steps to ensure that this harassment stops.
I demand that you:
- Cease and desist all forms of harassment, bullying, and cyberbul
is the law in NC the same as SC
Hi ****,
Laws can vary significantly between states. While both North Carolina and South Carolina have laws against harassment and cyberbullying, the specific statutes and legal procedures might differ. It’s important to refer to the specific laws in each state for accurate information.
Would you like more details on South Carolina's harassment and cyberbullying laws?
north carolina ones
Certainly, here is some general legal information about harassment and cyberbullying laws in North Carolina:
- ******rassment**: North Carolina law (NCGS § *-*.3A) defines stalking and harassment, making it illegal to harass another person by following them or engaging in a pattern of conduct intended to cause emotional distress.
- **Cyberbullying**: Under NCGS § *-*.*, it is illegal to use electronic communication to threaten, harass, or intimidate another person.
Would you like more detailed information on these laws or assistance with another issue?
Information
Certainly, here is some detailed information about harassment and cyberbullying laws in North Carolina:
- ******rassment**:
- Under NCGS § *-*.3A, it is illegal to willfully engage in a course of conduct directed at a specific person that causes substantial emotional distress or fear for their safety or the safety of their immediate family. This includes following, monitoring, or communicating with the person repeatedly.
- **Cyberbullying**:
- According to NCGS § *-*.*, it is illegal to use a computer or electronic communication device to:
- Build a fake profile with the intent to harass.
- Post or encourage others to post private, personal, or false information about someone.
- Intentionally cause fear or emotional distress through repeated electronic communications.
- Encourage others to harass or cyberstalk.
- Threaten or intimidate another person.
Would you like more specific guidance on how to take legal action under North Carolina laws?
yes
Certainly, here’s how you can take legal action under North Carolina laws:
- **Document Evidence**: Keep records of all harassment and cyberbullying incidents, including screenshots, messages, and any other relevant evidence.
- **Report to Law Enforcement**: File a report with your local police department, providing all documented evidence.
- **Seek a Protective Order**: You may apply for a restraining order or protective order through your local court.
- **Consult an Attorney**: Consider seeking legal advice to understand your rights and for assistance with the legal process.
Would you like assistance with finding local law enforcement contacts or the nearest court?
should I provide any evidence within the cease and desist
Yes, it is advisable to include some evidence within the cease and desist letter to substantiate your claims. Here are some tips:
- **Include Specific Incidents**: Briefly describe the incidents with dates and any relevant details.
- **Attach Copies**: Consider attaching copies of key evidence, such as screenshots of messages or social media posts.
Would you like assistance with drafting this part of the letter?
yes
Certainly, here’s how you can include evidence within your cease and desist letter:
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[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] created a fake social media account under my name and posted defamatory comments.]
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] sent a text message from a fake num
is there more of what you wrote
Certainly, here is the continuation and completion of your cease and desist letter with evidence included:
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[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] created a fake social media account under my name and posted defamatory comments.]
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] sent a text m
should I also provide evidence to him as to how I traced a fake account back to it being his girlfriends best friend
Yes, you should include evidence to support your claims in the cease and desist letter. This can help substantiate your allegations and make your case stronger. Ensure you:
- **Detail Incident**: Briefly describe how you traced the fake account back to his girlfriend's best friend.
- **Attach Evidence**: Provide copies of key evidence such as screenshots or logs showing the trace.
Would you like help drafting this addition to your letter?
just that part yes
Certainly, here’s the addition on how you traced the fake account:
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[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] created a fake social media account under my name and posted defamatory comments.]
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] sent a text message from a fake number with harmful comments about our daughter.]
- I have traced one of the fake social media accounts back to your
what does the rest say
Certainly, here is the completion of your addition regarding the evidence tracing:
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[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] created a fake social media account under my name and posted defamatory comments.]
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] sent a text message from a fake number with harmful comments about our daughter.]
- I have traced one of the fake social media accounts back to your girlfriend
If they are harassing me stating that our infant daughter doesn't even exist and he has never even seen her, should I add a copy of her birth certificate to the cease and desist
Including a copy of your daughter’s birth certificate in the cease and desist letter could help substantiate your claims and demonstrate her existence. Here are some tips:
- **Attach a Copy**: Include a clear copy of the birth certificate.
- **Mention in Letter**: Briefly mention in the letter that you are including the birth certificate as evidence.
Would you like help drafting this addition to your letter?
Can
Certainly, here’s how you can include the mention of your daughter's birth certificate in your cease and desist letter:
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[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] created a fake social media account under my name and posted defamatory comments.]
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] sent a text message from a fake number with harmful comments about our daughter.]
- I have traced one of the fake social media accounts back
Can I redact everything on her birth certificate other than her first and last name, the date she was born, and mothers name
In South Carolina, you may redact certain information on a birth certificate when sharing it, but it's important to ensure that the document still serves its intended purpose. Redacting everything except her first and last name, date of birth, and mother’s name should be acceptable for your cease and desist letter.
Would you like further guidance on how to redact the document appropriately?
yes
Certainly, here’s how you can appropriately redact your daughter’s birth certificate:
*. **Make a Copy**: Start with a photocopy or scanned copy of the birth certificate.
*. **Redact Information**: Use a black marker or a redaction tool to block out all information except for her first and last name, date of birth, and mother’s name.
*. **Ensure Legibility**: Make sure the unredacted information remains clearly visible.
*. **Label as Redacted**: Optionally, you can write "Redacted" on the document to indicate that certain information has been intentionally hidden.
Would you like any more assistance with this process?
yes
What additional assistance do you need with the redaction process? Here are some options:
- Guidance on using digital redaction tools.
- Tips on securely sharing the redacted document.
- Any specific questions or concerns you have about the process.
Please let me know how I can assist you further.
Can I redacct all of that and it still be solid proof of my daughters existence
Yes, redacting all information except your daughter's first and last name, date of birth, and mother's name should still serve as solid proof of her existence. Ensure that these key details are clearly visible and legible after redaction. Would you like further assistance with any other aspect of your cease and desist letter or legal process?
yes
How else can I assist you with your cease and desist letter or legal process? Do you need help with any specific part of the letter, additional legal information, or guidance on another matter?
how else can I prove her existence to him that there is no way I could allegedly fake anythig
To further substantiate your daughter's existence and ensure credibility:
- **Include Photographs**: Provide recent photographs of your daughter.
- **Medical Records**: Share redacted medical records that include your daughter's name and birth date.
- **Witness Statements**: Obtain statements from friends or family members who have met your daughter.
- **Paternity Test**: Consider a paternity test if the father's acknowledgment is in question.
Would you like help drafting any of these additional proofs?
Can I say in a cease and desist to the alleged father of my infant daughter that if he doesn't want anything to do with her to not try to come into her life later
In a cease and desist letter, it is generally advisable to focus on addressing the immediate issue of harassment and requesting that it stop. While you can express your feelings and intentions regarding future involvement, it’s important to remain factual and professional. Here’s a suggested way to phrase it:
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Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Describe Incident * with evidence]
- [Describe Incident * with evidence]
Such actions are not only hurtful but also illegal under South Carolina law. I request that you take immediate steps to ensure that this harassment stops.
I demand that you:
- Cease and desist all forms of harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying against me, my family, and my friends.
- Ensure that your girlfriend and her friend immediately stop their harmful actions.
Additionally, if you do not wish to be involved in our
do not wish to be involved in what?
Certainly, here is the completed sentence:
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Additionally, if you do not wish to be involved in our daughter's life, I request that you refrain from attempting to contact or involve yourself in her life in the future.
Would you like any further assistance with your cease and desist letter or any other legal matter?
How would I word that I attached a picture of my daughters birth certificate since he doesn't even believe she existed to the cease and desist
Certainly, here’s how you can include the mention of your daughter’s birth certificate attachment in your cease and desist letter:
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[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] created a fake social media account under my name and posted defamatory comments.]
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] sent a text message from a fake number with harmful comments about our daughter.]
- I have traced one of the fake
trace one of the fake what?
Certainly, here is the completion of your cease and desist letter with the mention of your daughter's birth certificate:
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[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] created a fake social media account under my name and posted defamatory comments.]
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] sent a text message from a fake number with harmful comments about our daughter.]
- I have traced one of the fake social media accounts
send me the entire thing not just half
Certainly, here is the complete cease and desist letter with the mention of your daughter's birth certificate:
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[Your Name]
[Your Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
[Email Address]
[Phone Number]
[Date]
[Alleged Father's Name]
[His Address]
[City, State, Zip Code]
Subject: Cease and Desist ****rassment
Dear [Alleged Father's Name],
I am writing to formally demand that the harassment, bullying, and cyberbullying that I have been subjected to by your girlfriend and her friend cease immediately. I have been harassed and cyberbullied, and fake social media accounts and phone numbers have been used to send me harmful messages about our daughter. This behavior has also impacted my family members and friends.
The specific actions that have taken place include, but are not limited to:
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] created a fake social media account under my name and posted defamatory comments.]
- [Describe Incident *: e.g., On [date], [name] sent a text message from a fake number with harmful comments about our daughter.]
- I have traced one of the fake social media accounts back to