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If you are facing harassment or threats from your parents, you can file for an Order of Protection in Illinois. Include all instances of abuse in your application. You can request an ex parte order without notifying the abusers initially. If granted, the court will notify your parents, and a full hearing will follow. Since your parents work in Illinois, the order may apply to them. For enforcement in Florida, the order can be recognized under the Violence Against Women Act. Consult a legal professional for personalized advice.Full Conversation
I am possibly looking at getting a restraining order against my mom and dad. I am * and they constantly call me and harass me about my college transcript. It has now gotten to the point where because I refuse to show them this my parents have shown up at my apartment. They also have called me and my friends, as well as their parents, and said threatening information. I am at the point where I am tired of my parents verbally and emotionally abusing me,
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, ****. In Illinois, you may apply for an Order of Protection if someone is harassing or threatening you. Can you share if any physical harm or threat of physical harm has been involved in your case?
While I was at home, before college, my dad used to hit me a lot especially for bad grades or anything disobedient I have done. However, since I left my house and went to college in *, I have not been in any physical harm. There has been a lot of verbal, and emotional abuse since then.
Based on your situation, here are some steps you can take in Illinois:
*. File for an Order of Protection from your local court.
*. Include all instances of abuse, both physical and emotional, in your application.
*. If your parents violate the order, call the police immediately.
Remember, you have the right to live free from abuse.
Is there anyway I can file without notifying the abusers? They also don't live with me in Illinois, they are residents of Florida.
Yes, you can request the court for an 'ex parte' order, which can be issued without notifying the abusers initially. After the order is issued, they will be notified. Here are the steps:
*. Request an 'ex parte' Order of Protection.
*. If granted, the court will notify your parents.
*. A full court hearing will occur where both parties can present evidence.
*. The judge will decide whether to extend the order.
They also don't live with me in Illinois, they are residents of Florida.
Since your parents reside in Florida, a restraining order may need to be served through their local jurisdiction. Have they been served any legal notices in Illinois previously?
No they have not
In your case, it's important to involve Florida's jurisdiction. After obtaining a protective order in Illinois, it can be enforced in Florida under the full faith and credit provision of the Violence Against Women Act. Contact local authorities for assistance.
However, my parents do work in Illinois
Since your parents work in Illinois, an Order of Protection issued in Illinois may apply to them. Consult a legal professional to understand the best course of action.
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