Mothers Absence Custody Impact

Summary

A mothers absence in Illinois doesnt automatically change custody but can affect future court decisions on visitation or custody. Courts prioritize the childs best interests, considering stability and parental relationships. The mothers lack of involvement over four years may lower her chances of gaining custody. If granted visitation, you can request child support. Retroactive support is unlikely without a prior court order. Legal advice is recommended to navigate these issues effectively.

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Family law in Illinois covers a wide range of issues, including divorce, child custody, and support. Could you specify what aspect of family law you're interested in? That way, I can provide more detailed information.
I'm father of * with sole custody, mother hasn't seen children for 4 years now. Basically it's estranged
Thanks for sharing. Are you looking for information on modifying custody arrangements, or are you concerned about the legal implications of the mother's absence? Let me know, so I can provide the most relevant information.
legal implication of mother's absence
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The absence of a mother in Illinois does not automatically change custody arrangements, but it may impact court decisions if she seeks visitation or custody in the future. Courts consider the child's best interests, including stability and the existing relationship with each parent.
Are you concerned about potential future claims by the mother for visitation or custody?
Since she never made any efforts or any visitation for last 4 years.... will court award her regardless?
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In Illinois, the court's primary concern is the best interests of the child. The mother's lack of visitation for four years may impact her chances, but the court will consider various factors:
- The child's relationship with each parent
- The reasons for the mother's absence
- The child's stability and adjustment
Do you have any concerns regarding the children's well-being if visitation is granted?
Our life is stable, house paid off, up to date medical wellness check up, doing great in school. Mother may come and request for her children back but she still live with her parents and doesnt have any history of children wellness check up. then she had new baby daughter with other men.
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In Illinois, a court will consider the best interests of the children, including their current stability and well-being. The mother's current living situation and absence may not necessarily prevent her from seeking visitation or custody, but it will be a factor. Are you worried about how the children's stability might be affected if visitation is granted?
Yes
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In Illinois, the courts will always prioritize the best interests of the children in custody and visitation cases. Given the mother's absence and your stable living situation, her chances may be affected. It might be beneficial to seek legal advice on how to present your case effectively.
So her chance is much lower?
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The mother's chances of obtaining custody or visitation may be lower due to her prolonged absence and your stable environment. However, the court will consider all factors. Consulting with a family law attorney could help you understand the best approach. Would you like any further information or guidance?
If she gets custody and requested an child support from me... Can I object that she owed me for last 4 years of financal burden
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In Illinois, if the mother seeks child support after gaining custody, you can present evidence of your financial support over the past four years. The court may consider this in the child support arrangement, but it doesn't automatically offset future obligations. Have you considered consulting a family law attorney to discuss this further?
Mother barely sent me financial support for last 4 years... can her obligations offset what I would owes in future child support?
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In Illinois, any financial support the mother failed to provide may be considered by the court, but it won't automatically offset future child support obligations. Courts focus on the child's current and future needs. Consulting with a family law attorney would be beneficial to explore options and present your financial history effectively.
So can mother pay me back for last 4 years
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In Illinois, you generally can't claim back-dated child support unless there was a court order in place that the mother failed to comply with. If no such order exists, the court is unlikely to require her to reimburse you for past expenses.
Support order was defer
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If the child support order was deferred, it may impact your ability to claim back-dated support. In Illinois, you typically can't claim retroactive support without a prior court order. Consulting a family law attorney can clarify your options. Would you like more information on this?
If they hire lawyer, can I play stragtery to cost her much more in attorney?
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In Illinois, you cannot strategically influence the legal costs for the opposing party. However, focusing on strong evidence and documentation can help your case. Consider consulting a family law attorney to understand the legal strategies available. Would you like more information on family law attorneys or legal strategies?
Would judge be disappointed to hear that mother abaondoned us for last 4 years?
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The judge's primary concern is the best interests of the children, not personal disappointment. The mother's absence over the last four years will be considered in any custody or visitation decisions. Her lack of involvement could affect her case. Would you like more information on this topic?
Her lack of involvement would hurt her case to gain custody?
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The mother's lack of involvement over the past four years could indeed hurt her case when seeking custody or visitation in Illinois. The court considers stability and existing relationships with each parent. Her absence may weigh against her, but all factors will be reviewed.
If you have more questions or need further guidance, feel free to ask!
If court decides that I keep sole custody but give her an visitation... can I propose court to order her for child support?
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In Illinois, if you have sole custody and the mother is granted visitation, you can request child support from her. The court will consider both parents' financial situations and the child's needs. Consulting a family law attorney can help you navigate this process effectively.