Court Visitation And Evidence Rules

Summary

In California, holiday visitation should be negotiated respectfully and in writing. The Right of First Refusal may require offering childcare to the other parent first. Early drop-offs are minor but should be documented. Leaving children at a workplace for long hours may be neglect. Proving parental alienation involves documenting behaviors and seeking professional evaluations. Concerns about bias in court-appointed investigators should be documented and communicated to the judge. When writing to the judge, serve copies to counsel and your ex. Evidence must be disclosed before trial; surprise evidence is not allowed, and a continuance can be requested to review new evidence. For specific guidance, contact the Orange County Superior Court.

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I have a court order visitation . Judge said that he would leave the holidays up to us to figure out . I'm afraid to do something wrong.
Hi ****, I understand your concern. To provide better guidance, may I know your location? This will help me provide relevant information specific to your jurisdiction.
I have no overnights and I want to ask my ex to see my kids on Thanksgiving
Hi ****, I understand your situation. Here are some general tips for you:
- Communicate with your ex in a polite and respectful manner.
- Make your request in writing, such as through a text or email.
- Clearly state the date and time you wish to see your kids.
- Offer flexibility and be willing to negotiate.
If you need further help, let me know your location to provide specific legal information.
Anaheim ca
Hi ****,
Here are some general tips for making a holiday visitation request:
- Communicate politely and respectfully with your ex.
- Make the request in writing (text or email).
- Clearly state your desired date and time.
- Offer flexibility and willingness to negotiate.
For further assistance, you can contact the Orange County Superior Court.

Orange County Superior Court


Phone: (*) *-*
Address: * Civic Center Dr W, Santa Ana, CA *
Website: www.occourts.org

If you need more specific legal information, feel free to ask!
They say if u need a sitter to call the other parent first before anyone else
Hi ****,
That statement likely refers to the "Right of First Refusal." Here are a few key points:
- Check your court order for specific terms regarding the "Right of First Refusal."
- If included, you must offer your ex the chance to watch the kids before asking anyone else.
- This typically applies only if you need a sitter for a significant duration.
If you need further clarification, you can reach out to the Orange County Superior Court:

Orange County Superior Court


Phone: (*) *-*
Address: * Civic Center Dr W, Santa Ana, CA *
Website: www.occourts.org

Feel free to ask if you have more questions!
The court order says I must pick up at 9am but my ex has been dropping them off at 830am is that reason to violate order
Hi ****,
Dropping the kids off earlier than the specified time (9am) is generally not a significant violation, but it's important to follow the court order closely. Here are some steps you might consider:
- Communicate your concern to your ex politely and request adherence to the 9am time.
- Document these early drop-offs for your records.
- If the issue persists, consider seeking clarification or modification from the court.
For more specific advice, you can contact the Orange County Superior Court:

Orange County Superior Court


Phone: (*) *-*
Address: * Civic Center Dr W, Santa Ana, CA *
Website: www.occourts.org

Let me know if you have more questions!
He took the kids to work at Taco belll. My kids age *,*,* had to sit at the table the whole * to * hr shift. Is that considered neglect
Hi ****,
To determine if leaving children at a workplace for long hours constitutes neglect, consider these points:
- Child welfare laws in California.
- The impact on the children's well-being and safety.
- If it happens frequently.
For specific guidance, you can contact the Orange County Superior Court:

Orange County Superior Court


Phone: (*) *-*
Address: * Civic Center Dr W, Santa Ana, CA *
Website: www.occourts.org

If you have more questions, feel free to ask!
How can I prove parental alienation when my kids tell me
Hi ****,
To prove parental alienation, consider the following steps:
- Document all instances and behaviors that suggest alienation.
- Keep records of communications with your ex and your kids.
- Gather testimonies from neutral witnesses (teachers, counselors).
- Seek a professional evaluation from a child psychologist.
For specific legal advice, you can contact the Orange County Superior Court:

Orange County Superior Court


Phone: (*) *-*
Address: * Civic Center Dr W, Santa Ana, CA *
Website: www.occourts.org

If you have more questions, feel free to ask!
The judge ordered an investigator on the case. The court appointed counsel turned out to be bias and I'm afraid the investigator will be the same
Hi ****,
I understand your concern about the potential bias of the court-appointed investigator. Here are some steps you can take:
- Document any instances of bias or unfair treatment.
- Request a different investigator or counsel if you have valid concerns.
- Communicate your concerns to the judge in writing.
For further assistance, you can contact the Orange County Superior Court:

Orange County Superior Court


Phone: (*) *-*
Address: * Civic Center Dr W, Santa Ana, CA *
Website: www.occourts.org

Feel free to ask if you have more questions!
If I write the judge is that something I need to to serve the counsel and my ex
Hi ****,
Yes, when you write to the judge, you generally need to serve copies of your communication to both the counsel and your ex. This ensures transparency and fairness in the legal process. For specific instructions, you can contact the Orange County Superior Court:
~Orange County Superior Court
Phone: (*) *-*
Address: * Civic Center Dr W, Santa Ana, CA *
Website: [www.occourts.org](http://www.occourts.org)

Let me know if you need more help!
What is the rule when showing evidence. I did not get served with pictures or a video and was ambushed with the evidence . I obviously didn't know otherwise I could of gathered my defense
Hi ****,
In California, the general rules for presenting evidence in court include:
- All parties must disclose evidence before the trial.
- Surprise evidence is typically not allowed.
- You may request a continuance to review new evidence.
For detailed guidance, you can contact the Orange County Superior Court:

Orange County Superior Court


Phone: (*) *-*
Address: * Civic Center Dr W, Santa Ana, CA *
Website: [www.occourts.org](http://www.occourts.org)

Feel free to ask if you have more questions!