Parental Abuse Reporting Steps

Summary

In California, its illegal for a parent to physically or emotionally abuse a child. If you feel threatened or unsafe, contact Child Protective Services (1-800-4-A-CHILD) or the police. Document incidents of abuse, including date, time, and details. If the police find evidence of abuse, they may arrest the abuser and involve CPS to ensure your safety. You can express your preference to stay with a specific relative, and CPS will consider this. Your safety and well-being are paramount.

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My dad just got mad and yelled at me because i wouldn't give him money to buy him a beer that money was birthday money that was given to me
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. In California, it's illegal for an adult to threaten or physically harm a minor. If you're in danger, call Child Protective Services (*-*-*-A-CHILD). Remember, it's important to stay safe.
He just yelled at me and said see how you are don't ask me for anything again
I'm really sorry you're going through this. You have a right to feel safe at home. If you feel threatened or unsafe, don't hesitate to call Child Protective Services at *-*-*-A-CHILD. It's important to know that yelling can be a form of emotional abuse.
Is it illegal for a parent to ask their child for beer money?
In California:
- Asking a child for money isn't illegal.
- However, using abusive language can be considered emotional abuse.
- If you feel threatened, please report to Child Protective Services: *-*-*-A-CHILD.
I just thought it was a stupid reason to get mad and yell at me
It's understandable that you're upset. California law doesn't specifically address a parent asking their child for money. However, yelling and creating an unsafe environment could be seen as emotional abuse. If you're feeling threatened, contact Child Protective Services (*-*-*-A-CHILD).
Ok thank you yeah right after he left to go play poker
I'm sorry to hear you're in this situation. Remember, you have rights and there are resources available to help you. If things escalate or you feel unsafe, consider reaching out to Child Protective Services at *-*-*-A-CHILD.
I will i already talked to my family
That's a good step to take. Remember, it's important to have supportive people around you during difficult times. Reach out to authorities if you feel unsafe. Stay strong and remember, there are resources available to help you.
My grandma said that if he hits me to call the police and call her so she can drive to pick me up
Your grandma is correct. If you're ever in immediate danger, call * right away. And remember, Child Protective Services is also available to help at *-*-*-A-CHILD. Stay safe and reach out to trusted adults in your life for support.
Yeah so if he does hit me and i call the police what will happen?
If you call the police because of physical abuse:
- They will likely investigate the situation.
- They may arrest your father if they find evidence of abuse.
- Child Protective Services will be notified to ensure your safety.
Stay safe and remember to call * in emergencies.
Where would i stay after i call them?
If you call the police and they find evidence of abuse, Child Protective Services (CPS) will be involved. They'll work to ensure your safety. Options may include:
- Staying with a relative, like your grandma.
- Foster care placement, if no suitable relatives are available.
- Group home or a shelter, in some cases.
Oh ok thank you
You're welcome! If you have any other questions or need further assistance, don't hesitate to ask. Remember, your safety is the most important thing. Don't hesitate to call Child Protective Services or the police if you feel threatened.
Is it legal to hit your child as punishment for getting in trouble?
In California, it's illegal to use physical punishment that can cause injury or harm. This includes:
- Hitting in a way that leaves a mark or causes injury.
- Using an object to hit a child.
- Hitting a child on the head or face.
Always remember, your safety is important. If you're being abused, please report to Child Protective Services (*-*-*-A-CHILD) or call *.
So if my dad gets mad at me and slaps me in the face i can call the police
Yes, if your father slaps you in the face, it's considered physical abuse. In California, this is illegal. You can call the police or Child Protective Services at *-*-*-A-CHILD if you're in immediate danger. Your safety is paramount.
What about if my dad hits me with his belt?
In California, hitting a child with a belt can be considered physical abuse, especially if it leaves a mark or causes injury. If this happens, you should contact Child Protective Services (*-*-*-A-CHILD) or the police. Your safety is crucial.
We live down the street from a jail can i run over there if he hits me and takes my phone away?
Yes, you can go to the nearest safe place like a jail or a police station if you're in immediate danger. It's important to tell an adult there what's happening. Remember, your safety is the top priority.
He usually takes my phone away before or right after he hits me
I'm sorry to hear that. If you aren't able to call for help, consider telling a trusted adult, like a teacher or a neighbor, about your situation. They can help you report. Do you have any other questions about your rights or what you can do?
One of my relatives told me to document when he yells at me like this she said to write down the time and date and what he said and then hide the paper
Your relative has given you good advice. Keeping a record can help if you need to report abuse. Be sure to include:
- Date and time of each incident.
- What was said or done.
- Any injuries you sustain.
Remember, your safety is paramount. If you're in immediate danger, contact the authorities.
Can i do that?
Yes, it's a good idea to document incidents of abuse. This can help if you decide to report to authorities. Remember, in any situation, your safety is the top priority. If you're in danger, contact Child Protective Services (*-*-*-A-CHILD) or the police.
So after i call the police if he hits me what would happen?
If you call the police and they find evidence of physical abuse, here's what could happen:
- Your father may be arrested.
- Child Protective Services will likely be contacted.
- You might be placed in a safe location, like with a relative or in a foster home.
Remember, your safety is paramount.
Oh ok thank you will they take pictures of any marks he left on me?
Yes, if there are visible marks or injuries, the police will likely take photos as evidence of physical abuse. This is to help with the investigation and any potential legal proceedings. Your safety and well-being are the priority.
I have allegations against my dad should i mention those when they come to the house?
Yes, it's important to share all relevant information, including any allegations against your father, with the authorities. This can help them assess the situation accurately and take necessary action to protect your safety.
So we live with my dad parents and his sister will cps make me stay with them? Or with a relative i feel safe with? Because his parents verbally abuse me
In California, CPS aims to place children with a relative if possible. However, the relative's home must be safe. If you report verbal abuse by your grandparents, CPS will take this into account. Your safety and well-being are paramount.
Oh ok thank you can i ask to stay with a relative?
Yes, you can express your preference to stay with a specific relative. CPS will consider this along with other factors to ensure your safety. Your well-being is the priority.
Will they find me a place to stay the day i call the police?
In California, Child Protective Services (CPS) aims to ensure your safety as soon as possible. If you call the police and they find evidence of abuse:
- CPS will likely get involved immediately.
- They'll work to find a safe place for you, ideally with a relative you trust.
- If a relative isn't immediately available, they may use temporary foster care or a shelter.
Oh ok thank you
You're welcome! If you have any more questions or need further advice, please don't hesitate to ask. Remember, your safety is the most important thing. Don't hesitate to call Child Protective Services or the police if you feel unsafe.