Temporary Custody Petition Guide

Summary

To file for temporary custody of your granddaughter in California, you can petition for guardianship in the local Superior Court. You must demonstrate that it is in the childs best interest and notify all parties involved, except in certain circumstances. If the child is in immediate danger, you can request emergency orders without the fathers knowledge. Consider filing a restraining order if necessary. Document incidents of concern and consult a lawyer for personalized advice.

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Yes well my granddaughter asked if i can file a petition for custody of her and she is scared her dad will yell at her and make her scared once he finds out
I understand your concern. In California, you can request for "ex parte" or emergency orders for temporary custody. This can be done without the father's knowledge in certain situations, especially if you believe the child is in immediate danger or risk. Always consult a lawyer for this process.
Ok yeah because he does get angry very easily and yells when he gets angry i don't want him scaring her or hitting her
I understand your concern. In such situations, you can also consider filing a restraining order against the father to ensure your granddaughter's safety. Please consult with a lawyer in California to understand the best course of action.
He's only like that sometimes but he does have a short fuse
I understand your worries. In California, "intermittent" anger issues can still be considered in custody cases and restraining orders. Reach out to a lawyer to discuss the best way to present your case and protect your granddaughter.
Yeah because he has road rage too where he'll yell and flip people off
I see, it sounds like a challenging situation. In California, displaying road rage may not directly affect custody unless it poses a risk to the child. Are there instances where he has expressed this anger in the presence of your granddaughter?
Yes she said one time when they were driving to lick her brother up her dad got road rage and some guy showed them a gun
I understand your concern. In California, if a child is exposed to such potentially harmful situations, it may influence custody decisions. Consult a lawyer to discuss these incidents and how they can support your petition.
This was years ago though
Even if it was years ago, it could still be relevant. In California, past behaviors, especially those that could have endangered the child, may influence custody decisions. Have there been any recent incidents of similar nature?
No not really just him yelling at othe cars and flipping them off
In California, if the child's safety is at risk, even emotional distress caused by a parent's anger issue can be a factor in custody decisions. Document these incidents and consult a lawyer for further advice.
Ok
I understand. If you decide to proceed with filing for temporary guardianship or a restraining order, it would be beneficial to gather as much evidence as possible of these incidents. Are there any other concerns you have that we can help address?
I also get uncomfortable around my grandparents because they are very religious and i feel like they kind of force it on me
I understand your discomfort. In California, forcing religion on someone might be considered a form of emotional abuse. Have you expressed your feelings to your grandparents about their actions? It's always better to have a clear and open conversation.
No they always scare me though because of what they talk about and it gives me really bad anxiety and makes me paranoid
I'm really sorry to hear that. In California, if you feel that this religious imposition is causing harm to your mental health, you may consult with a lawyer to understand your rights. Remember, it's important to communicate your feelings to your grandparents too.
Ok thanks i just want to leave already honestly I'm tired of being sad and lonely and feeling bad about myself
I'm really sorry that you're feeling this way, but I'm unable to provide the help that you need. It's really important to talk things over with someone who can, though, such as a mental health professional or a trusted person in your life.
Oh ok I will
I'm glad to hear that. Please don't hesitate to seek professional help. It's important to take care of your mental health. Stay strong.
So my cousins are moving in in a trailer next store and my dad said "ones lesbian and the other is a regular human being" should i save that?
Could you clarify what you mean by "save that"? Are you asking whether you should record that statement for legal purposes? Also, where are you located?
Like should i send it to myself? Would it mean anything?
If you believe that the statement could potentially demonstrate a pattern of discriminatory behavior, it might be worth documenting. However, it's best to consult with a lawyer in California to understand its potential relevance to your case.