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In Virginia, you are not obligated to allow your mother to live with you if it compromises safety and your work environment. Clearly communicate your decision to PACE and your mother. Consider consulting a family law attorney for legal support and explore alternative care options through PACE or social services.Full Conversation
I have told PACE that i work from home and i do not want in home care they stated they would try to talk her into assisted living but my mom is refusing and now she wants to come back here since she can make her own decisions but i do NOT want her to this is my house and it is not safe and i have told mom and PACE this over and over
It sounds like a tough situation. In Virginia, you are indeed not obligated to provide housing for your mother. You have the right to decide who lives in your home. Here are a few steps you can consider:
- Communicate Firm Boundaries: Clearly state to both your mother and PACE that your decision is final for her safety and your own well-being.
- Legal Advice: Consult with a family law attorney to understand your rights and any legal actions you can take to enforce your decision.
- Exploring Alternatives: Look into other care options that PACE can offer which do not involve her returning to your home.
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- Communicate Firm Boundaries: Clearly state to both your mother and PACE that your decision is final for her safety and your own well-being.
- Legal Advice: Consult with a family law attorney to understand your rights and any legal actions you can take to enforce your decision.
- Exploring Alternatives: Look into other care options that PACE can offer which do not involve her returning to your home.
Would you like assistance finding a local attorney who can help you further?
She wants to come back home with me she is set on coming back since she can make her own decisions but i do NOT want her back, do i have to accept her back since she can make her own decisions but it's not safe here and i work here and no one is to take care of her and we have no other family to do so
You are not obligated to take your mother back into your home, especially if it compromises her safety and your work environment. It's important to stand firm on your decision. Communicate this clearly to PACE and your mother. Would you like assistance finding alternative care options or a local attorney for further guidance?
How do i stand firm when pace is saying they cant force her to go anywhere else?
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In Virginia, you have the right to decide who lives in your home. Clearly communicate to PACE and your mother that your home is not a viable option due to safety concerns. You may also consider:
- Consulting a family law attorney for legal support.
- Exploring other care options through PACE or social services.
Would you like assistance finding alternative care options or a local attorney for further guidance?
In Virginia, you have the right to decide who lives in your home. Clearly communicate to PACE and your mother that your home is not a viable option due to safety concerns. You may also consider:
- Consulting a family law attorney for legal support.
- Exploring other care options through PACE or social services.
Would you like assistance finding alternative care options or a local attorney for further guidance?
SO even though she can make her own decisions and have the right to choose on where to live i still dont have to allow her back in my house even though she was living here prior?
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You are correct. In Virginia, you are not obligated to allow your mother back into your home if it compromises her safety and your living conditions, even though she can make her own decisions.
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You are correct. In Virginia, you are not obligated to allow your mother back into your home if it compromises her safety and your living conditions, even though she can make her own decisions.
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I do not want my mom back in my house for safety reasons and i work from home she is a fall risk that has muscle disease and she can make her own decisions but it's not safe. shes in rehab at the moment from a fall and she goes through PACE and i do not want her back here i have told pace and my mom several times my home is no longer a option for her
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Reason: I do not want my mom back in my house for safety reasons and i work from home she is a fall risk that has muscle disease and she can make her own decisions but it's not safe. shes in rehab at the moment from a fall and she goes through PACE and i do not want her back here i have told pace and my mom several times my home is no longer a option for her
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I want to also know will PACE bring her back here if she insist on coming back to my house even though she can make her own decisions and lives here
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PACE cannot force you to take your mother back into your home if you have clearly communicated that it is not an option due to safety and personal reasons. Your right to decide who lives in your home prevails.
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PACE cannot force you to take your mother back into your home if you have clearly communicated that it is not an option due to safety and personal reasons. Your right to decide who lives in your home prevails.
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what if pace tells me they can not make her do anything and she has to come back to my house
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In Virginia, you are not obligated to allow your mother back into your home if it compromises her safety and your living conditions, even if she can make her own decisions. Here are some steps you can take:
- Communicate Firm Boundaries: Clearly state to both your mother and PACE that your decision is final for her safety and your own well-being.
- Legal Advice: Consult with a family law attorney to understand your rights and any legal actions you can take to enforce your decision.
- Exploring Alternatives: Look into other care options that PACE can offer which do not involve her returning to your home.
Would you like to be connected to local lawyers who can better assist you with your case?
In Virginia, you are not obligated to allow your mother back into your home if it compromises her safety and your living conditions, even if she can make her own decisions. Here are some steps you can take:
- Communicate Firm Boundaries: Clearly state to both your mother and PACE that your decision is final for her safety and your own well-being.
- Legal Advice: Consult with a family law attorney to understand your rights and any legal actions you can take to enforce your decision.
- Exploring Alternatives: Look into other care options that PACE can offer which do not involve her returning to your home.
Would you like to be connected to local lawyers who can better assist you with your case?
Will pace still bring her back here after i told them no
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PACE should not bring your mother back to your home if you have clearly stated that it is not a safe or viable option. To ensure this, continue to communicate your boundaries firmly with both PACE and your mother. If needed, consult with a family law attorney for further guidance.
PACE should not bring your mother back to your home if you have clearly stated that it is not a safe or viable option. To ensure this, continue to communicate your boundaries firmly with both PACE and your mother. If needed, consult with a family law attorney for further guidance.
what if my mom refuses to go anywhere besides back to living with me since she lives here originally?
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In Virginia, you have the right to decide who lives in your home, even if your mother insists on returning. If she refuses other living arrangements, you might need legal support to enforce this boundary.
Would you like assistance finding alternative care options or a local attorney for further guidance?
In Virginia, you have the right to decide who lives in your home, even if your mother insists on returning. If she refuses other living arrangements, you might need legal support to enforce this boundary.
Would you like assistance finding alternative care options or a local attorney for further guidance?
what legal support
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Will pace find my mom somewhere to go if i refuse to let her back in my house
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If you refuse to let your mother back into your home, PACE should work with you and her to find alternative care arrangements. It is essential to communicate clearly with PACE and your mother about the non-viability of your home as an option and explore other solutions they offer.
If you refuse to let your mother back into your home, PACE should work with you and her to find alternative care arrangements. It is essential to communicate clearly with PACE and your mother about the non-viability of your home as an option and explore other solutions they offer.
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