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Protection Order Violation Report
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Repeated violations of a protection order can be serious, especially with a history of domestic violence. Document all incidents, including messages and their emotional impact. Report these violations to the El Paso County Sheriffs Office and consider seeking legal advice to ensure your safety and enforce the order. Harassment through multiple messages can be reported, and legal guidance can help address ongoing issues.Full Conversation
How would you finish this? Ashley Jemmings
* Davis Rd
Peyton, CO, *
****leyakjemmings@gmail.com
(*) *-*
El Paso County Sheriff's Office
Re: Protection Order Violations - Dustin Olive
To Whom It May Concern,
I am writing to report multiple violations of the protection order issued against Dustin Olive. This is not the first time Mr. Olive has violated the protection order, and I am deeply concerned about the escalating pattern of behavior. The Permanent Civil Protection Order (PCPO) was initially granted due to a history of domestic violence, which adds to the seriousness of his repeated violations.
The protection order clearly states that Mr. Olive shall not contact, harass, stalk, injure, intimidate, threaten, touch, sexually assault, abuse, or molest me, nor engage in any conduct that would place me in reasonable fear of bodily injury. The order allows no contact except written communication through AppClose regarding our minor children.
Despite these clear directives, Mr. Olive has continuously violated the terms of the order. Below, I outline each violation, how it breaches the protection order, the intent behind his actions as I perceive them, and the emotional toll it has taken on me, given the context of his past violent behavior.
January *, *
• Violation: The protection order prohibits communication through third parties except for specific topics regarding the children through APPCLOSE. This message, sent to our minor son, seems designed to provoke me indirectly.
• Message: "Well maybe you can ask how she got eight thousand dollars in money to take care of all three of you that came from my pocket not hers and where it all went, not to you all. I'm thinking it went to her lawyer instead of it going to you kids like it was supposed to not a lawyer for her!!!"
• Intent: Mr. Olive’s message shows intent to create conflict and distress between me and my son, possibly to manipulate or control the situation emotionally.
• Emotional Impact: This message causes unnecessary stress and potential conflict, reminding you of past manipulative behaviors.
September * – *, *
• Although related to child support, the persistent and demanding tone intended to criticize and pressure me into doing what he wants.
• Violation: The protection order prohibits communication through third parties except for specific topics regarding the children. This message, sent to our minor son, seems designed to provoke me indirectly.
• Message: "Well maybe you can ask how she got eight thousand dollars in money to take care of all three of you that came from my pocket not hers and where it all went, not to you all. I'm thinking it went to her lawyer instead of it going to you kids like it was supposed to not a lawyer for her!!!"
• Intent: Mr. Olive’s message shows intent to create conflict and distress between me and my son, possibly to manipulate or control the situation emotionally.
• Emotional Impact: This message causes unnecessary stress and potential conflict, reminding you of past manipulative behaviors.
August *, *
• Violation: This message is unrelated to our children and constitutes harassment by sending incoherent and disturbing content.
• Message: A long, rambling message about satellites, drones, law enforcement, and drugs.
• Intent: The erratic nature of the message seems to be intended to confuse or distress me, attempting to make it difficult to maintain boundaries.
• Emotional Impact: Such messages are deeply unsettling and make me fear for my safety and his mental stability, given his history of violence.
June *, *
• Message: "If I friend request your FB page will you accept it? Only doing it so I can keep up with how the kids are…"
• Violation: The protection order specifies that all communication must be through AppClose regarding the children. His request to connect on Facebook is an attempt to contact me outside the approved channel, violating the order.
• Intent: Mr. Olive’s request to connect via social media shows an attempt to circumvent the legal boundaries set by the protection order, potentially to monitor my life or extend communication beyond what is allowed.
• Emotional Impact: This request caused anxiety, as it seemed like an attempt to infringe upon the protections in place. His history of violence heightens my concern about further harassment or intimidation.
May *, *
• Violation: This message is unrelated to our children and constitutes harassment by sending incoherent and disturbing content.
• Message: Letting you know to let kids know I’m ok but, i was unlawfully imprisoned last night by the sheriff of El Paso county and him and his crew stole every single thing i own including all of the kid things. Everything
• Intent: The nature of the message seems to be intended to garner attention or cause distress, which can be seen as an attempt to bypass legal boundaries
• Emotional Impact: Such messages are deeply unsettling and make me fear for my safety given his history of violence.
To Whom It May Concern,
I am urgently requesting that the El Paso County Sheriff's Office take immediate action to enforce the protection order and ensure my safety. I am available to provide any additional information or documentation needed to support this report.
Thank you for your prompt attention to this matter.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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Phone: (*) *-*
Address: * E Vermijo Ave, Colorado Springs, CO *
Website: https://www.epcsheriffsoffice.com
I am urgently requesting that the El Paso County Sheriff's Office take immediate action to enforce the protection order and ensure my safety. I am available to provide any additional information or documentation needed to support this report.
Thank you for your prompt attention to this matter.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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El Paso County Sheriff's Office
Phone: (*) *-*
Address: * E Vermijo Ave, Colorado Springs, CO *
Website: https://www.epcsheriffsoffice.com
what other ways to finish this?
Certainly, Ash. Here are a few alternative ways to finish your letter:
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I trust that the El Paso County Sheriff's Office will take the necessary steps to protect me and enforce the protection order as intended. I am available for any further questions or clarifications.
Thank you for your immediate attention to this grave matter.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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Option *:
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I kindly request that the El Paso County Sheriff's Office take immediate and decisive action to address these violations and ensure my safety. I am willing to cooperate fully and provide any further evidence required.
Thank you for your understanding and prompt response.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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Option *:
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I hope the El Paso County Sheriff's Office will act swiftly to address this urgent issue. I am prepared to supply any additional information or evidence needed to support this report.
Thank you for prioritizing my safety.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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I hope these options help. Stay safe.
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Option *:
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I trust that the El Paso County Sheriff's Office will take the necessary steps to protect me and enforce the protection order as intended. I am available for any further questions or clarifications.
Thank you for your immediate attention to this grave matter.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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Option *:
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I kindly request that the El Paso County Sheriff's Office take immediate and decisive action to address these violations and ensure my safety. I am willing to cooperate fully and provide any further evidence required.
Thank you for your understanding and prompt response.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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Option *:
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I hope the El Paso County Sheriff's Office will act swiftly to address this urgent issue. I am prepared to supply any additional information or evidence needed to support this report.
Thank you for prioritizing my safety.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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I hope these options help. Stay safe.
is that appropriate if its all via messages?
Yes, it's appropriate to handle this matter via messages, especially if you're documenting protection order violations. Clear communication through messages can be effective and provides a written record. Ensure your final letter is concise and focuses on the urgency and specifics of the violations.
no i mean is it an appropriate response to close the letter
Hi Ash,
Yes, the options provided are appropriate to close your letter. Here are a few concise closing options that you can consider:
*. I trust that the El Paso County Sheriff's Office will act promptly. Thank you for your attention to this matter. Sincerely, Ashley Jemmings
*. I appreciate your immediate action to ensure my safety. Thank you. Sincerely, Ashley Jemmings
*. Please take swift action to enforce the protection order. Thank you. Sincerely, Ashley Jemmings
Choose the one that best fits your tone and urgency. Stay safe.
Yes, the options provided are appropriate to close your letter. Here are a few concise closing options that you can consider:
*. I trust that the El Paso County Sheriff's Office will act promptly. Thank you for your attention to this matter. Sincerely, Ashley Jemmings
*. I appreciate your immediate action to ensure my safety. Thank you. Sincerely, Ashley Jemmings
*. Please take swift action to enforce the protection order. Thank you. Sincerely, Ashley Jemmings
Choose the one that best fits your tone and urgency. Stay safe.
other options
Certainly, Ash. Here are a few more alternative ways to close your letter:
Option *:
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I am confident that the El Paso County Sheriff's Office will address this matter urgently. Thank you for your prompt attention.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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Your immediate action is crucial for my safety. Thank you for your swift response.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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Option *:
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I appreciate your dedication to ensuring my protection. Thank you for your swift attention to this matter.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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I hope these help. Stay safe.
Option *:
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I am confident that the El Paso County Sheriff's Office will address this matter urgently. Thank you for your prompt attention.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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Option *:
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Your immediate action is crucial for my safety. Thank you for your swift response.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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Option *:
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I appreciate your dedication to ensuring my protection. Thank you for your swift attention to this matter.
Sincerely,
Ashley Jemmings
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I hope these help. Stay safe.
what is the legal deffinition of intimidate
Hi Ash,
In Colorado, to "intimidate" generally means to make someone fearful or to compel someone to act against their will through threats or coercion. It involves actions that cause fear or create a sense of danger.
If you have more specific questions, feel free to ask! Stay safe.
In Colorado, to "intimidate" generally means to make someone fearful or to compel someone to act against their will through threats or coercion. It involves actions that cause fear or create a sense of danger.
If you have more specific questions, feel free to ask! Stay safe.
what is coercion
Hi Ash,
In Colorado, coercion involves compelling someone to act against their will by using threats, force, or intimidation. It typically means applying pressure to make someone do something they otherwise wouldn't do.
If you need more details or have another question, feel free to ask! Stay safe.
In Colorado, coercion involves compelling someone to act against their will by using threats, force, or intimidation. It typically means applying pressure to make someone do something they otherwise wouldn't do.
If you need more details or have another question, feel free to ask! Stay safe.
so is badgering them about replying and saying "if this is your way of coparenting i thiunk you need to read up on it alot more, not ignore everything i ask" considered coercion?
Hi Ash,
Badgering someone about replying and making statements like "if this is your way of coparenting i think you need to read up on it a lot more, not ignore everything I ask" can be considered harassment or intimidation, but it may not meet the legal definition of coercion unless it involves threats or compels the person to act against their will.
Is there anything specific you wish to address or clarify further? Stay safe.
Badgering someone about replying and making statements like "if this is your way of coparenting i think you need to read up on it a lot more, not ignore everything I ask" can be considered harassment or intimidation, but it may not meet the legal definition of coercion unless it involves threats or compels the person to act against their will.
Is there anything specific you wish to address or clarify further? Stay safe.
what if there are * messages about it
Hi Ash,
If Mr. Olive is sending multiple messages (* or more) that badger you about replying and criticize your co-parenting, this can be considered harassment, especially if it creates a hostile or distressing environment.
Here are some steps you might consider:
- **Document Everything:** Keep a record of all messages, including dates and times.
- **Report to Authorities:** Inform the El Paso County Sheriff's Office about these ongoing violations.
- **Legal Advice:** Consult with a legal professional to discuss your options for addressing this harassment.
Do you need more detailed guidance on any of these steps? Stay safe.
If Mr. Olive is sending multiple messages (* or more) that badger you about replying and criticize your co-parenting, this can be considered harassment, especially if it creates a hostile or distressing environment.
Here are some steps you might consider:
- **Document Everything:** Keep a record of all messages, including dates and times.
- **Report to Authorities:** Inform the El Paso County Sheriff's Office about these ongoing violations.
- **Legal Advice:** Consult with a legal professional to discuss your options for addressing this harassment.
Do you need more detailed guidance on any of these steps? Stay safe.
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