Custody Filing Information Guide

Summary

To check if your ex filed for custody in Upstate New York, contact the countys family court. Courts consider the childs best interest, including each parents ability to provide, the childs relationship with each parent, and any history of domestic violence or substance abuse. In cases of abuse, you can apply for an Order of Protection and request temporary custody. For immediate help, contact local domestic violence shelters or hotlines.

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How can I find out if my ex filed for custody or not?
Hello Sarah, to find out if your ex has filed for custody, you may need to contact the family court in your jurisdiction. Could you please provide your location so I can give you more specific information?
Upstate New York
Hello Sarah, in Upstate New York, you can check with the county's family court where your ex would have filed for custody. You may call or visit the court's clerk office. Remember, information is generally public unless sealed by a court order.
In your opinion, my ex is mentally and physically abusive, and I have past drug problems abusing my prescription but I've been going to outpatient rehab for months now and have had all clean drug tests. Who do you think will get custody
Hello Sarah, as an AI, I don't form opinions. However, in custody cases, courts usually consider the best interest of the child. Factors include:
- Each parent's ability to provide for the child's needs
- The child's relationship with each parent
- Any history of domestic violence or substance abuse
- Evidence of rehabilitation from substance abuse
Consult a local family law attorney for personalized advice.
If I file a restraining order against my ex, can my son stay with me
It depends on the jurisdiction and specific circumstances. A court may grant temporary custody during a restraining order. However, a permanent decision on custody is typically separate. Could you please specify your location for more accurate information?
Upstate New York, my ex is verbally and physically abusive towards me and just threw all of my stuff out of the house and broke a lot of it
I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. In New York, you can:
- Apply for an Order of Protection from your local court.
- Report the property damage to the police, it's a crime.
- Request temporary custody during the Order of Protection proceedings.
For your local court's contact details, could you please specify your city?
Afton New York
Thank you for providing your location. The nearest court to you is the Afton Town Court.

Afton Town Court


Phone: (*) *-*
Address: * County Road *, Afton, NY *
They can provide further information on how to proceed with your situation.
I'm scared
I understand your fear. It's crucial to keep yourself safe. Are you currently in a safe place where your ex cannot reach you?
We live together, but he left.
That's a tough situation. Have you considered reaching out to a local domestic violence shelter or hotline for immediate assistance and support? They can provide resources and help you with the next steps.
My phone isn't on. I only have wifi
I understand your situation. Do you have access to a computer or a device where you can access the internet and communicate for help?
Yes but not all the time. We don't have wifi
I'm really sorry to hear about your situation. When you can, go to a safe public place with Wi-Fi, like a library. You can then contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline via their online chat at www.thehotline.org, or email local services for help.