Leaving Home For Safety

Summary

Minors in California generally cant move out without parental consent. If in danger, contact Child Protective Services or the police. Financial and physical abuse are illegal. Evidence like photos and text messages can be used in investigations. Unreasonable discipline and emotional punishment causing distress are forms of child abuse. Always prioritize your safety and seek legal advice if needed.

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So i want to leave my house and live with my grandma I'm scared of my dad and his parents
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this. In California:
- Minors (under *) usually can't move out without parents' consent.
- If in danger, contact Child Protective Services or the police.
- Consult a lawyer for legal advice on emancipation.
Your safety is important.
I was wondering if he hits me and i call the cops can a relative take me in during the investigation
In California, if a minor is in danger or abused:
- The police may place the minor in protective custody.
- A relative can potentially take care of the minor if deemed suitable by Child Protective Services.
- Always prioritize your safety and call the police if needed.
I was telling my family that yesterday he got mad at me because i wouldn't give him my birthday money to buy him a beer and he clearly had money because he went to gamble after
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. Please remember to prioritize your safety. In California:
- Financial abuse is also a form of child abuse.
- If you feel unsafe, immediately contact Child Protective Services or the police.
- They can take appropriate steps for your protection.
I was telling some relatives that i didn't want to defend myself and say anything back to him because he would've hit me but they said that if he hit me i could've used that to call the police and get out of this house
It's imperative you're safe. In California, if you're threatened or physically abused:
- Contact the police immediately.
- They can help ensure your safety and start an investigation.
- Physical abuse is illegal and could lead to your placement with a safer relative.
If cps come out here to investigate can i show them any concerns such as mold? Or do they have to find it themselves?
In California, during a CPS investigation:
- You can point out any concerns like mold.
- CPS assesses the overall safety of the home, including environmental hazards.
- Your input is valuable to their assessment.
I have a pill bottle showing my dads moms name on there it was prescription medicine that they gave to me while i was sick
In California, it's illegal to give someone else's prescription medication. If you're sick, see a doctor. If you're in danger, contact the police or CPS. They can investigate and take necessary steps. Your safety is important.
Will they keep the bottle or take pictures of it?
In California, during an investigation:
- Evidence like the pill bottle may be taken for further examination.
- Pictures could also be taken as part of the documentation process.
- Their approach depends on the specific case and the officer's judgment.
Oh ok how long after calling the police will they show up for child abuse?
In Visalia, California, response times can vary, but police typically aim to respond to emergency calls as quickly as possible. In situations of immediate danger, call *. Your safety is the top priority.
Will they arrest my dad if they find bruises on me?
In California, if the police find evidence of physical abuse like bruises:
- They can arrest the suspected abuser.
- The person could face charges for child abuse.
- Remember to prioritize your safety and call the police if you're in danger.
What are reasons i can call the police on my dad?
In California, you can call the police on your dad for:
- Physical abuse (hitting, causing bruises)
- Emotional abuse (threats, intimidation)
- Financial abuse (taking your money without consent)
- Providing you with someone else's prescription medication
Always prioritize your safety.
Is having bottles of urine on a dresser legal?
In California, having bottles of urine is not illegal. However, it could be seen as unsanitary or a health hazard, especially if it's causing an unhealthy living environment. If it's part of a child abuse investigation, CPS may consider it when assessing the home's conditions.
Oh ok my dad removed them today but i took pictures of them yesterday
That's a good step, evidences can be important. In California, photos can be used as evidence in a child abuse investigation. You have the right to present these photos to the police or CPS. Remember, your safety comes first.
I have an album on my gallery that is full of evidence such as pictures and text messages
That's excellent. Are you looking for advice on how to use this evidence effectively in California? Your safety and well-being are our top priorities.
Yes please i have * pictures on there
In California, you can use photos and text messages as evidence in a child abuse case:
- Show them to the police or Child Protective Services during an investigation.
- Keep copies of everything for your records.
- Consult a lawyer for specific advice about presenting this evidence.
Ok thank you
You're welcome! Remember, your safety comes first. If you're in immediate danger, call *. Child Protective Services in California can also provide help: *-*-*-*. Don't hesitate to reach out if you need more guidance.
Is there any reason that my dad can legally hit me? Or is all of it considered abuse?
In California, it's illegal for a parent to hit a child if it causes injury or is not reasonable discipline. Generally:
- Any hitting that causes injury is considered abuse.
- Unreasonable discipline, even without injury, can also be abuse.
Please prioritize your safety and report any abuse.
What is unreasonable discipline?
In California, "unreasonable discipline" refers to any form of punishment that is excessive or inappropriate for the child's age or condition. This can include:
- Physical punishment causing injury or pain.
- Emotional punishment causing distress.
- Punishment that humiliates or degrades the child.
Always prioritize your safety and report any abuse.
What is "emotional punishment that causes distress"?
In California, "emotional punishment that causes distress" could include actions like:
- Constant criticism or belittling.
- Threats or intimidation.
- Isolation or ignoring the child.
These actions can cause emotional harm and are considered a form of child abuse. Always prioritize your safety and report any abuse.