Visitation Rights Protective Order

Summary

The protective order allows Carmen to decide on supervised visitations and choose the location. If the adverse party tries to leave the agreed location, Carmen can call the police. Starting with shorter visitations and gradually increasing the time is reasonable. Carmen has temporary custody and can set visitation at her discretion. The adverse partys manipulative behavior should be monitored, and any issues should be documented.

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I need help understanding my protective order
What specific part of the protective order are you having trouble understanding, ****?
My order states “: Adverse Party’s visitation with the parties’ minor child/ren will be at Applicant’s discretion as confirmed in writing via Talking Parents. It shall not be a violation of this order for Adverse Party to communicate with Applicant via the Talking Parents Program (talkingparents.com) to coordinate, schedule and exercise visitation or for the parties to meet at an agreed upon location for purposes of facilitating custody exchanges”
What part of this order are you finding difficult to understand?
does that mean I can be at the visitations?
Yes, as per the order, you can be at the visitations. The scheduling and coordination should be done via Talking Parents Program.
Do the visitations have to be supervised ?
The order doesn't specify supervised visitation. It's at your discretion as confirmed in writing via Talking Parents.
So I can choose if it’s supervised or not ?
Yes, based on the order, you can decide whether the visitations are supervised or not.
Does he have to stay at the location I choose ?
Yes, the order implies that you can choose the location for visitation. However, it's always best to choose a location that is safe and comfortable for the child.
If I am trespassed from his apartment complex and he tries to leave the location and take her there what options do I have
Can you clarify if the protective order includes any restrictions on the adverse party taking the child to locations from which you are trespassed?
It doesn’t say anything about it I don’t think the court knows. The property manager just sent me an email saying I’m trespassed but I was never trespassed by law enforcement or anything
Did you receive any formal documentation about this trespassing notice from the property manager?
Just an email
Do you have a copy of this email? It could be useful if you need to provide evidence of the trespass notice.
Can she do that? Am I legally trespassed from the property ?
Can you provide more details about the content of the email you received from the property manager?
It states “I hope all is well with you. I did try to call but got no answer. Daughsin did let me know about the TPO and all though this is sad and tough matter for you both. I want to make sure we are all on the same page. Being that this is not only Daughsin’s home but also his workplace I will have to trespass you. Please be advised that you are no longer allowed on this property for any matter as of today */*/*. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me by phone or email. ”
What is the location of the property you've been trespassed from?
South Reno nv
Can you clarify if the property you're trespassed from is the same location you're considering for visitations?
I don’t want him to have any visitation at this property but if he tries to leave the location I set and take her to this property what are my options
What is the state you are residing in? Different states have different rules regarding protective orders and visitation rights.
Nevada
What is the age of your child?
7 months
What is the nature of the protective order? Is it temporary or permanent?
It’s an extended protective order against domestic violence
What is the duration of the extended protective order?
6 months
What is the name of the adverse party in the protective order?
Daughsin croff
What is the relationship between you and Daughsin Croff?
Married
What is the reason for the protective order against Daughsin Croff?
Domestic violence
What is the nature of the domestic violence incident that led to the protective order?
Emotional abuse, punching holes, suicidal threats, name calling, and animal cruelty. And abusive behavior towards our daughter as in calling her sexy, telling her to shut the fuck ip, punching the roof and dash of my car when she wouldn’t stop crying, leaving her in her car seat and leaving the house, and roughly putting her down when she won’t stop crying
What actions have you taken so far to ensure your daughter's safety during the visitations?
We haven’t started visitation yet. I told him I will be at the visitations and he doesn’t think I’m allowed to be
What is the location you are considering for the visitations?
A park
What is the name and location of the park you're considering for the visitations?
Idlewild park on idkewild dr Reno nv
What is the duration and frequency of the visitations you are planning?
For the first visit it will be Saturday for * hour
What time on Saturday are you planning for the visitation?
4pm-5pm
What is your plan if Daughsin Croff attempts to leave the agreed upon location during the visitation?
What can I do?
If Daughsin Croff attempts to leave the agreed location during the visitation, you can call the police. It's important to have a copy of the protective order and trespass notice with you.
Do you think * hour of visitation to start and then progress more time is reasonable in a courts eyes
Yes, starting with shorter visitations and gradually increasing the time is generally seen as reasonable, especially in cases involving young children and domestic violence.
Should I give him 2 days or just * a week to start
What is the current custody arrangement as per the protective order?
My discretion
What is the current frequency of visitation as per the protective order?
It’s all at my discretion. I have temporary custody and visitation to adverse party at my discretion
What is the duration of your temporary custody order?
6 months
What is the name of the court that issued the protective order?
Reno justice court
What is the exact address of Reno Justice Court?
Unsure
What is the case number of your protective order?
Why
The case number can help in identifying your specific case if you need to refer to it in future legal proceedings. Is there anything else I can assist you with?
He is only available fridays and saturdays should I give him an hour on both days or is it still considered reasonable to allow just 1 day as long as I eventually extend the time as it goes well
What is the current visitation schedule you have in mind?
Saturdays from 4pm-5pm and move up a half an hour every week as long as he follows all rules and co parents appropriately
What is the current level of cooperation between you and Daughsin Croff in terms of co-parenting?
He is very manipulative and is already trying to get * hours instead of * and we haven’t even started visitation yet I am calm but he can make comments when no one is around
What kind of comments does he make when no one is around?