Child Custody Abuse Concerns

Summary

Amandas ex-husband obtained custody of their daughter through a default judgment. Since moving to Texas, the child has faced physical and emotional abuse. Amanda fears reporting the abuse may worsen the situation. She has consulted a lawyer who advised obtaining a Temporary Restraining Order (TRO). Amanda resides in Oklahoma but has been in Texas for a week to help her daughter. She is advised to report the abuse to Texas authorities, consult a Texas attorney, and consider emergency custody orders and protective measures.

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my ex husband got my daughter through a default judgement in our divorce on April * *. Since shes had to move to Texas with him she has been physically and emotionally abused. And her health is being treated as if it doesn't matter. she is * and tells me everyday that she is being abused by her father brother and sister
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, Amanda. Did you report the abuse to local authorities in Texas?
No not yet because I feel like if I do it will make it worse on her because when I called cps the abuse got worse for her
I'm sorry to hear this, Amanda. It's crucial to protect your child. Even though you fear escalation, reporting to Texas authorities is necessary. Consider:
*. Contacting Texas Child Protective Services.
*. Consult a lawyer about revisiting the custody agreement.
*. Document all incidents of abuse.
Remember, this is just general advice. Please consult a legal professional.
I already have and he has told me to get a Tro
I understand, Amanda. A Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) could indeed help. Have you started the process of obtaining a TRO in your location? Your location is important as procedures can vary.
I live in Oklahoma she lives in Texas
You can file a TRO in Oklahoma where you reside. Here are the steps:
*. Contact your local courthouse.
*. Fill out the required forms.
*. Attend a hearing.
Please consult with your attorney for further guidance.
ivw been here in Texas for a week trying to help her
I understand, Amanda. Have you considered filing the TRO in Texas, where the alleged abuse is taking place?
yes I have he has also sexually abused my daughter back in * but the charge was no billed
I'm truly sorry for what your daughter is going through. It's essential to report the sexual abuse to the Texas authorities immediately. It might be beneficial to consult with a Texas attorney who specializes in child protection.
so I'm terrified for her safety
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, Amanda. Considering your fears, it may be beneficial to:
*. Consult a legal professional about emergency custody orders.
*. Notify local Texas authorities about your concerns.
*. Seek a protective order against the abuser.
Remember to act promptly to ensure her safety.
thank u
You're welcome, Amanda. I strongly recommend you to act quickly and consult a legal professional. Your daughter's safety is the utmost priority. If you need any more information, feel free to ask.