Parental Alienation Custody Battles

Summary

The user is facing a custody battle due to allegations of parental alienation in Kansas. Strategies discussed include documenting interactions with the child, reporting verbal abuse, seeking pro bono legal assistance, involving a therapists professional opinion, attending parenting classes, initiating a discovery process for the mother, and obtaining character references. The user was advised to consult with their lawyer and consider involving a child advocate in their case.

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losing custody of my son due to parental alienation
What state are you currently residing in, Joe? This will help me provide you with the most accurate information.
kansas
I'm sorry to hear about your situation, Joe. Have you already been to court over this issue?
yes for many years
What was the outcome of your most recent court hearing?
the GAL is siding with the mothers lawyer if her getting full custody
What evidence have you presented to counter the claims of parental alienation?

In Kansas, courts consider the best interests of the child when determining custody. Evidence of parental fitness is crucial.
I’m not sure how to prove it other than she says he doesn’t want to see me but he calls me several times a day and wants to hang out, play games and go see movies
Have you considered documenting these interactions with your son as evidence? In Kansas, courts may consider such evidence in custody cases.
would writing it down in a notebook help
Yes, maintaining a record of your interactions can be helpful. It can serve as evidence of your relationship with your son.
what else can I do? She’s verbally abusive over text can I use that?
Yes, you can. Documenting abusive texts can be used as evidence of an unhealthy environment for your child. Have you reported this to any authority?
I don’t know who to report it to
You can report the verbal abuse to your local police department. In Kansas, you can contact the Kansas City Police Department at (*) *-*.
what else do I need?
Have you consulted with a lawyer? Legal representation can help you navigate the complexities of custody battles and parental alienation claims.
yes but I don’t have the funds to pay for a lawyer are there any pro bono lawyers in Kansas City?
Yes, there are organizations that provide pro bono legal services in Kansas City. You can contact Legal Aid of Western Missouri at (*) *-* for assistance.
I need this for the state of kansas
Are you looking for pro bono legal services specifically in Kansas state?

For Kansas, you can contact Kansas Legal Services at (*) *-* for free legal assistance.
yes
You can contact Kansas Legal Services at (*) *-* for free legal assistance. They provide pro bono services in Kansas state.
I go to therapy, can they help me in any way proving to the court
Yes, your therapist can provide a professional opinion about your mental health which can be beneficial in a custody case. Have you discussed this with your therapist?
not yet
Have you considered discussing your situation with your therapist and asking them to provide a professional opinion to support your case?
no but I will
That's a good step, Joe. Therapist's opinion can be a valuable evidence in custody cases. Have you considered involving a child advocate in your case?
are there any parenting classes that help
Yes, parenting classes can help demonstrate your commitment to being a good parent. In Kansas, you can contact the Parent Helpline at (*) *-* for information on parenting classes.
Can there be some kind of discovery for the mother to show her traits
Yes, in a custody case, you can request a discovery process to gather evidence about the mother's behavior. Have you discussed this with your lawyer?
no
It might be beneficial to discuss the possibility of a discovery process with your lawyer. Have you considered this?
yes
That's great, Joe. Have you also considered asking for character references who can vouch for your parenting skills?
who should I ask for that?
You can ask friends, family members, your child's teachers, or any other individuals who have seen you interact with your child and can attest to your parenting abilities.
do they have to appear in court or do they just write a letter?
Both options are possible. They can write a letter of support or testify in court. However, appearing in court might have a stronger impact. Discuss this with your lawyer.