Custody Schedule Dispute Resolution

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In Virginia, the court prioritizes the childs best interest. Discuss concerns with the guardian ad litem, propose a 70/30 schedule, and consider mediation. Consult a local lawyer for personalized advice.

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I filed for full custody due to father not being involved for 6 months. The judge appointed gardian ad litem who is pushing joint custody to an irresponsible parent . Who hasnt even followed court orders now for months. She asked me what i thought for a schedule, considering i originally filed for full due to father being irresponsible, she suggests a week on and a week off, but i cannot do that. How do i approach her on this?
Hello ****. It seems like you're facing a challenging situation. Could you please tell me the state you're in? Laws about child custody vary by location.
Virginia
Hello ****. In Virginia, the court's primary concern is the child's best interest. You can:
*. Discuss your concerns with the guardian ad litem.
*. Consider mediation to reach an agreement.
*. If necessary, present your evidence to the court.
*. Consult with a local lawyer for personalized advice.
How do i send email to gardian ad litem that i filed for full custody to begin with i do not wanna do the week away from my kids, he can see them durimg the week and every other weekend. */*
Hello ****. In your email to the guardian ad litem, you can:
*. Be clear and concise.
*. Politely express your concerns about the proposed schedule.
*. Mention your initial filing for full custody.
*. Propose your alternative schedule of */*.
*. Ask for a discussion or a meeting to further discuss this issue.
Always remember to remain respectful and professional in your communications.
Can you write an idea for an example of this email
Subject: Re: Proposed Custody Schedule
Dear [Guardian ad Litem's Name],
I hope this message finds you well. I am writing to discuss the proposed custody schedule for my children. As you may recall, I initially filed for full custody due to concerns about their father's responsibility. The suggested week on/off schedule is not suitable for our situation.
Instead, I propose an alternative schedule of */*, where the children can see their father during the week and every other weekend. This setup, I believe, would better serve the best interests of our children.
I look forward to discussing this further at your earliest convenience.
Regards,
****