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In North Carolina, providing proof of a childs existence to a non-legally acknowledged parent does not automatically grant them legal rights or standing. Anyone can request a wellness check, but without legal standing, such requests may not hold significant weight. If harassment continues, consider seeking a protective order. When sharing personal information, clearly state its confidentiality and request it not be shared without consent. If privacy is violated, document instances and seek legal counsel. You can also address misinformation and clarify intentions in communications.Full Conversation
If I provide proof of life (heavily redacted picture of my daughters birth certificate only my name, her name, and her date of birth) to the non legally acknowledged father of hers as well as a picture of a medicine bottle stating the pick up dat that was a few days ago does that give him grounds to request a well chess check be done for my daughter? Even if he has not seen or met her after being provided multiple opportunities to do so.
Hi Hannah,
To better assist you, could you clarify if there is any existing court order or custody agreement regarding your daughter? This information will help provide more accurate guidance.
Thank you,
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To better assist you, could you clarify if there is any existing court order or custody agreement regarding your daughter? This information will help provide more accurate guidance.
Thank you,
FreeLawChat
there is nothing. His girl friend and his are making claims that my daughter does not exist and creating unnecessary drama and pushing that narrative
Hi Hannah,
To provide some guidance:
- If there's no court order or custody agreement, he typically has no legal standing.
- The well-being of your daughter is your responsibility; proof can be shared if you choose.
- If harassment continues, consider seeking legal counsel or a protective order.
Would you like more information on how to handle harassment in New York?
To provide some guidance:
- If there's no court order or custody agreement, he typically has no legal standing.
- The well-being of your daughter is your responsibility; proof can be shared if you choose.
- If harassment continues, consider seeking legal counsel or a protective order.
Would you like more information on how to handle harassment in New York?
What if me sending him that information is my attempt to stop the narrative being pushed not because he has rights to her? I just want to be left alone and if my daughters existence is being questioned I would like to provide proof other wise
Hi Hannah,
If your goal is to stop the narrative and be left alone, you may want to consider the following:
- Providing the redacted proof may help stop the narrative.
- If harassment continues, you can seek a protective order.
Would you like more information on how to obtain a protective order in New York?
If your goal is to stop the narrative and be left alone, you may want to consider the following:
- Providing the redacted proof may help stop the narrative.
- If harassment continues, you can seek a protective order.
Would you like more information on how to obtain a protective order in New York?
If I do provide him with that proof could he then turn around and request a wellness check?
Hi Hannah,
In New York, anyone can request a wellness check if they have concerns about a child's safety. However, with no legal standing or court order, his request may not carry significant weight. If you're concerned about harassment, consider seeking a protective order.
Would you like more details on obtaining a protective order in New York?
In New York, anyone can request a wellness check if they have concerns about a child's safety. However, with no legal standing or court order, his request may not carry significant weight. If you're concerned about harassment, consider seeking a protective order.
Would you like more details on obtaining a protective order in New York?
what about in North Carolina
Hi Hannah,
In North Carolina:
- Anyone can request a wellness check if they have concerns about a child's safety.
- Without legal standing or a court order, his request may not carry significant weight.
- Consider seeking a protective order if harassment continues.
Would you like more information on obtaining a protective order in North Carolina?
In North Carolina:
- Anyone can request a wellness check if they have concerns about a child's safety.
- Without legal standing or a court order, his request may not carry significant weight.
- Consider seeking a protective order if harassment continues.
Would you like more information on obtaining a protective order in North Carolina?
What about in South Carolina?
Hi Hannah,
In South Carolina:
- Anyone can request a wellness check if they have concerns about a child's safety.
- Without legal standing or a court order, his request may not carry significant weight.
- Consider seeking a protective order if harassment continues.
Would you like more information on obtaining a protective order in South Carolina?
In South Carolina:
- Anyone can request a wellness check if they have concerns about a child's safety.
- Without legal standing or a court order, his request may not carry significant weight.
- Consider seeking a protective order if harassment continues.
Would you like more information on obtaining a protective order in South Carolina?
If there is a wellness check requested and police come to my house to do the wellness check on my daughter can I refuse and tell them it is not a legitimate safety concern due to harassment and him being given multiple opportunities but he declined them?
Hi Hannah,
In New York:
- You generally cannot refuse a wellness check once the police arrive.
- You can explain the situation to the officers, including the harassment and prior opportunities given.
- If harassment persists, consider seeking a protective order.
Would you like details on obtaining a protective order in New York?
In New York:
- You generally cannot refuse a wellness check once the police arrive.
- You can explain the situation to the officers, including the harassment and prior opportunities given.
- If harassment persists, consider seeking a protective order.
Would you like details on obtaining a protective order in New York?
what about in South Carolina?
Hi Hannah,
In South Carolina:
- You generally cannot refuse a wellness check once the police arrive.
- Explain the situation to the officers, including the harassment and prior opportunities given.
- If harassment persists, consider seeking a protective order.
Would you like details on obtaining a protective order in South Carolina?
In South Carolina:
- You generally cannot refuse a wellness check once the police arrive.
- Explain the situation to the officers, including the harassment and prior opportunities given.
- If harassment persists, consider seeking a protective order.
Would you like details on obtaining a protective order in South Carolina?
Can I refuse to let them in my house?
Hi Hannah,
In New York:
- You generally cannot refuse entry to the police for a wellness check.
- You can explain the situation to the officers, including the harassment and prior opportunities given.
Would you like details on obtaining a protective order in New York?
In New York:
- You generally cannot refuse entry to the police for a wellness check.
- You can explain the situation to the officers, including the harassment and prior opportunities given.
Would you like details on obtaining a protective order in New York?
what if one was already done by her non legally acknowledged father not out of genuine concern but weaponized as another form of harassment
Hi Hannah,
If a wellness check was already done and you believe it was used as a form of harassment, you may consider the following steps:
- Document all instances of harassment.
- Seek legal counsel for advice on protective orders.
- File a complaint with the police about the misuse of wellness checks.
Would you like more detailed information on obtaining a protective order in New York?
If a wellness check was already done and you believe it was used as a form of harassment, you may consider the following steps:
- Document all instances of harassment.
- Seek legal counsel for advice on protective orders.
- File a complaint with the police about the misuse of wellness checks.
Would you like more detailed information on obtaining a protective order in New York?
If I do send him proof can I request he not share the information provided with anyone else other than legal counsel due to the nature of the information being personal and I am the only one that can give consent to share my daughters records?
Hi Hannah,
Yes, you can request that he not share the information with anyone else other than legal counsel. Here are a few steps you might consider:
- Clearly state in writing that the information is confidential.
- Specify that sharing requires your consent.
- If he violates this, consider seeking legal action for privacy violation.
Would you like more information on handling privacy violations in New York?
Yes, you can request that he not share the information with anyone else other than legal counsel. Here are a few steps you might consider:
- Clearly state in writing that the information is confidential.
- Specify that sharing requires your consent.
- If he violates this, consider seeking legal action for privacy violation.
Would you like more information on handling privacy violations in New York?
What would my email to him say?
Sure, Hannah. Here’s a suggested email draft you can use:
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Hi [His Name],
I am writing to provide you with proof of our daughter’s existence as your recent claims have been causing unnecessary drama. Please find attached a redacted copy of her birth certificate and a recent photo of her medication bottle.
Please note that this information is confidential. I request that you do not share it with anyone other than your legal counsel without my explicit consent. This is personal information, and I am the only one authorized to give permission for its distribution.
Thank you for your understanding.
Best regards,
Hannah
---
Would you like more details on handling privacy violations in New York if he does not comply with this request?
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Hi [His Name],
I am writing to provide you with proof of our daughter’s existence as your recent claims have been causing unnecessary drama. Please find attached a redacted copy of her birth certificate and a recent photo of her medication bottle.
Please note that this information is confidential. I request that you do not share it with anyone other than your legal counsel without my explicit consent. This is personal information, and I am the only one authorized to give permission for its distribution.
Thank you for your understanding.
Best regards,
Hannah
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Would you like more details on handling privacy violations in New York if he does not comply with this request?
could I also add screenshots of my medical record where the tests were done, the date they were done, the time they were done, and who ordered tests being done to confirm pregnancy
Hi Hannah,
Yes, you can add screenshots of your medical record to confirm your pregnancy. Ensure that the information is clearly stated as confidential in your email, and specify that it should not be shared without your consent.
Would you like more details on handling privacy violations in New York if he does not comply with this request?
Yes, you can add screenshots of your medical record to confirm your pregnancy. Ensure that the information is clearly stated as confidential in your email, and specify that it should not be shared without your consent.
Would you like more details on handling privacy violations in New York if he does not comply with this request?
What would that message to him look like with that part added to it?
Sure, Hannah. Here’s a suggested email draft with the additional information included:
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Hi [His Name],
I am writing to provide you with proof of our daughter’s existence as your recent claims have been causing unnecessary drama. Please find attached a redacted copy of her birth certificate, a recent photo of her medication bottle, and screenshots of my medical records confirming my pregnancy, including the tests done, dates, times, and the ordering physician.
Please note that this information is confidential. I request that you do not share it with anyone other than your legal counsel without my explicit consent. This is personal information, and I am the only one authorized to give permission for its distribution.
Thank you for your understanding.
Best regards,
Hannah
---
Would you like more details on handling privacy violations in New York if he does not comply with this request?
---
Hi [His Name],
I am writing to provide you with proof of our daughter’s existence as your recent claims have been causing unnecessary drama. Please find attached a redacted copy of her birth certificate, a recent photo of her medication bottle, and screenshots of my medical records confirming my pregnancy, including the tests done, dates, times, and the ordering physician.
Please note that this information is confidential. I request that you do not share it with anyone other than your legal counsel without my explicit consent. This is personal information, and I am the only one authorized to give permission for its distribution.
Thank you for your understanding.
Best regards,
Hannah
---
Would you like more details on handling privacy violations in New York if he does not comply with this request?
what about in North Carolina?
Hi Hannah,
In North Carolina, you can follow a similar approach:
- Clearly state in writing that the information is confidential.
- Specify sharing requires your consent.
- If he violates this, you can seek legal action for privacy violation.
Would you like a revised email draft for North Carolina?
In North Carolina, you can follow a similar approach:
- Clearly state in writing that the information is confidential.
- Specify sharing requires your consent.
- If he violates this, you can seek legal action for privacy violation.
Would you like a revised email draft for North Carolina?
yes
Sure, Hannah. Here’s a revised email draft for North Carolina:
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Hi [His Name],
I am writing to provide you with proof of our daughter’s existence as your recent claims have been causing unnecessary drama. Please find attached a redacted copy of her birth certificate, a recent photo of her medication bottle, and screenshots of my medical records confirming my pregnancy, including the tests done, dates, times, and the ordering physician.
Please note that this information is confidential. I request that you do not share it with anyone other than your legal counsel without my explicit consent. This is personal information, and I am the only one authorized to give permission for its distribution.
Thank you for your understanding.
Best regards,
Hannah
---
Would you like more details on handling privacy violations in North Carolina if he does not comply with this request?
---
Hi [His Name],
I am writing to provide you with proof of our daughter’s existence as your recent claims have been causing unnecessary drama. Please find attached a redacted copy of her birth certificate, a recent photo of her medication bottle, and screenshots of my medical records confirming my pregnancy, including the tests done, dates, times, and the ordering physician.
Please note that this information is confidential. I request that you do not share it with anyone other than your legal counsel without my explicit consent. This is personal information, and I am the only one authorized to give permission for its distribution.
Thank you for your understanding.
Best regards,
Hannah
---
Would you like more details on handling privacy violations in North Carolina if he does not comply with this request?
yes
Hi Hannah,
In North Carolina, if he violates your request to keep the information confidential, you can take the following steps:
- Document all instances of the privacy violation.
- Seek legal counsel for advice on how to proceed.
- Consider filing a complaint or pursuing legal action for breach of privacy.
Would you like more detailed information on handling privacy violations in North Carolina?
In North Carolina, if he violates your request to keep the information confidential, you can take the following steps:
- Document all instances of the privacy violation.
- Seek legal counsel for advice on how to proceed.
- Consider filing a complaint or pursuing legal action for breach of privacy.
Would you like more detailed information on handling privacy violations in North Carolina?
Could I also say that he shouldn't believe everything that he hears from "friends" I used to have who take things I confided in them with in the past only to have them twist things to fit this one certain narrative. I have ever only wanted what is the best interest of our daughter. I have done and will continue to act on what is best for her and what keeps her safe?
Hi Hannah,
Yes, you can include that statement to clarify your intentions and address the misinformation. Here’s an updated draft:
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Hi [His Name],
I am writing to provide you with proof of our daughter’s existence as your recent claims have been causing unnecessary drama. Please find attached a redacted copy of her birth certificate, a recent photo of her medication bottle, and screenshots of my medical records confirming my pregnancy, including the tests done, dates, times, and the ordering physician.
Please note that this information is confidential. I request that you do not share it with anyone other than your legal counsel without my explicit consent. This is personal information, and I am the only one authorized to give permission for its distribution.
Additionally, I would like to mention that you shouldn’t believe everything you hear from "friends" I used to have who might twist things to fit a certain narrative. I have always acted in the best interest of our daughter and will continue to do so to ensure her safety and well-being.
Thank you for your understanding.
Best regards,
Hannah
---
Would you like more details on handling privacy violations in North Carolina if he does not comply with this request?
Yes, you can include that statement to clarify your intentions and address the misinformation. Here’s an updated draft:
---
Hi [His Name],
I am writing to provide you with proof of our daughter’s existence as your recent claims have been causing unnecessary drama. Please find attached a redacted copy of her birth certificate, a recent photo of her medication bottle, and screenshots of my medical records confirming my pregnancy, including the tests done, dates, times, and the ordering physician.
Please note that this information is confidential. I request that you do not share it with anyone other than your legal counsel without my explicit consent. This is personal information, and I am the only one authorized to give permission for its distribution.
Additionally, I would like to mention that you shouldn’t believe everything you hear from "friends" I used to have who might twist things to fit a certain narrative. I have always acted in the best interest of our daughter and will continue to do so to ensure her safety and well-being.
Thank you for your understanding.
Best regards,
Hannah
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Would you like more details on handling privacy violations in North Carolina if he does not comply with this request?
Could I also add that due to the events that have occurred in the past 6 months he will not be hearing from me again after this message nor will I be pursuing taking him to court for child support. his involvement with our daughter is *% his choice and he has the right to believe whatever narrative he would like?
Hi Hannah,
Yes, you can include that statement. Here’s an updated draft:
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Hi [His Name],
I am writing to provide you with proof of our daughter’s existence as your recent claims have been causing unnecessary drama. Please find attached a redacted copy of her birth certificate, a recent photo of her medication bottle, and screenshots of my medical records confirming my pregnancy, including the tests done, dates, times, and the ordering physician.
Please note that this information is confidential. I request that you do not share it with anyone other than your legal counsel without my explicit consent. This is personal information, and I am the only one authorized to give permission for its distribution.
Additionally, I would like to mention that you shouldn’t believe everything you hear from "friends" I used to have who might twist things to fit a certain narrative. I have always acted in the best interest of our daughter and will continue to do so to ensure her safety and well-being.
Due to events that have occurred in the past 6 months, you will not be hearing from me again after this message, nor will I be pursuing taking you to court for child support. Your involvement with our daughter is *% your choice, and you have the right to believe whatever narrative you would
Yes, you can include that statement. Here’s an updated draft:
---
Hi [His Name],
I am writing to provide you with proof of our daughter’s existence as your recent claims have been causing unnecessary drama. Please find attached a redacted copy of her birth certificate, a recent photo of her medication bottle, and screenshots of my medical records confirming my pregnancy, including the tests done, dates, times, and the ordering physician.
Please note that this information is confidential. I request that you do not share it with anyone other than your legal counsel without my explicit consent. This is personal information, and I am the only one authorized to give permission for its distribution.
Additionally, I would like to mention that you shouldn’t believe everything you hear from "friends" I used to have who might twist things to fit a certain narrative. I have always acted in the best interest of our daughter and will continue to do so to ensure her safety and well-being.
Due to events that have occurred in the past 6 months, you will not be hearing from me again after this message, nor will I be pursuing taking you to court for child support. Your involvement with our daughter is *% your choice, and you have the right to believe whatever narrative you would
Do I mention the harassment or no?
Hi Hannah,
It's up to you whether to mention the harassment directly. If you feel it strengthens your position, you can include it. Here’s an updated draft including mention of harassment:
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Hi [His Name],
I am writing to provide you with proof of our daughter’s existence as your recent claims have been causing unnecessary drama. Please find attached a redacted copy of her birth certificate, a recent photo of her medication bottle, and screenshots of my medical records confirming my pregnancy, including the tests done, dates, times, and the ordering physician.
Please note that this information is confidential. I request that you do not share it with anyone other than your legal counsel without my explicit consent. This is personal information, and I am the only one authorized to give permission for its distribution.
Additionally, I would like to mention that you shouldn’t believe everything you hear from "friends" I used to have who might twist things to fit a certain narrative. I have always acted in the best interest of our daughter and will continue to do so to ensure her safety and well-being.
Due to events that have occurred in the past 6 months, including harassment, you will not be hearing from me again after this message, nor will I be pursuing taking you to court for child support.
It's up to you whether to mention the harassment directly. If you feel it strengthens your position, you can include it. Here’s an updated draft including mention of harassment:
---
Hi [His Name],
I am writing to provide you with proof of our daughter’s existence as your recent claims have been causing unnecessary drama. Please find attached a redacted copy of her birth certificate, a recent photo of her medication bottle, and screenshots of my medical records confirming my pregnancy, including the tests done, dates, times, and the ordering physician.
Please note that this information is confidential. I request that you do not share it with anyone other than your legal counsel without my explicit consent. This is personal information, and I am the only one authorized to give permission for its distribution.
Additionally, I would like to mention that you shouldn’t believe everything you hear from "friends" I used to have who might twist things to fit a certain narrative. I have always acted in the best interest of our daughter and will continue to do so to ensure her safety and well-being.
Due to events that have occurred in the past 6 months, including harassment, you will not be hearing from me again after this message, nor will I be pursuing taking you to court for child support.
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