Mold Concerns Affecting Custody

Summary

In California, landlords must provide habitable housing free from health hazards like black mold. Tenants can report issues to the local health department and may sue for damages. Child custody decisions consider the childs best interests, including health and safety. Courts may order home inspections and consider evidence of previous living conditions. Monitoring a minors digital communications without consent is generally illegal. Guardians must provide a safe living environment. Child abuse and neglect, including medical neglect and emotional abuse, are serious matters. Evidence can be crucial in legal proceedings. Consult a local family law attorney for specific guidance.

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So there is a lot of black mold in the shower and I'm trying to live with my grandma would that help me? I have really bad allergies and they act up whenever i take a shower because of the black mold
In California:
- Landlords are legally responsible for providing habitable housing, free from health hazards including black mold.
- Tenants can report such issues to local health department.
- In severe cases, tenants can sue landlords for damages due to health issues caused by poor living conditions.
Please consult with a local legal professional for more precise advice.
So me and my dad live with his parents at their house and they are aware of the black mold but they haven't called anyone to get it removed
In California:
- You can report the issue to local health department.
- If your health is severely affected, you may seek legal remedies.
- Please consult a local legal professional for advice.

Remember, this is general advice and may not fit your specific situation.
Because it's in the corners of the shower along the window and on the roof
It seems like you're living in a hazardous condition. In California, you are legally protected. Here are the steps you can take:
- Document the mold problem with photos.
- Report it to the local health department.
- Consult a local legal professional for further action.
Remember, this is general advice and may not fit your specific situation.
Would that help my grandma get custody of me?
In California, child custody decisions are based on the best interests of the child. Factors include:
- Health and safety of the child
- Emotional ties between the child and potential guardians
- Ability of the potential guardian to care for the child
Your living conditions might influence a custody decision. Consult a local family law attorney for advice.
I'm more close to my grandma than anyone and she's always taking care of me
That's great to hear. Are you considering having your grandma as your legal guardian? If so, she may need to petition for custody. Have you discussed this with her?
Yes and yes
It sounds like you and your grandma are ready to move forward. In California, she can file a petition for guardianship. Factors considered in guardianship cases include:
- The child's preference
- The existing relationship between the child and potential guardian
- The potential guardian's ability to provide a safe, stable environment
Please consult a local family law attorney for specific guidance.
Will the court do a home inspection on my current house and my grandma's house? Or can i request one to show how safe and clean my grandma's house is
In California:
- Courts may order a home study or evaluation as part of a custody or guardianship case.
- This may include inspections of both your current residence and your grandma's house.
- You or your grandma's attorney can also request a home study.
Please consult a local family law attorney for specific guidance.
Oh ok and what happens if my dad's parents try to clean their house so it looks clean for the inspection? Even with photos of the mold and how dirty it is
In California:
- Previous living conditions, including photos of mold, can be submitted as evidence.
- A sudden change in living conditions can be noted.
- Consult a local family law attorney for specific guidance.
So i have a question but i don't know if you can answer it
Of course, I'm here to help. What's your question?
Can my dad see my text messages on his phone?
In California, it's generally illegal to monitor someone's digital communications without their consent. However, as a minor, your privacy rights can be limited. Consult a local attorney for specific advice.
Is there a way i can see if he is monitoring me? Because i don't think he should I'm * and i hardly get any privacy as it is
In California:
- It's illegal to install spyware without consent.
- As a minor, your rights can be limited.
- Look for unfamiliar apps or increased data usage.
- Consult a tech expert or local attorney for specific advice.
Ohh ok thank you
You're welcome! If you have any more questions in the future, don't hesitate to ask. Remember, it's important to consult with a local attorney for advice specific to your situation. Stay safe and take care.
So i also have to share a room with my dad and their is an extra room for when my nephews spend the night i things it's weird for a daughter and her dad to share a room and it makes me uncomfortable and upset
In California, guardians must provide a safe and comfortable living environment for minors. If you are uncomfortable, it may be worth addressing this issue with a trusted adult or a local legal professional. They can provide guidance based on your specific situation.
When i visit my grandma she has a room for me to stay in she said that if i move in with her that room will be mine
That sounds much more comfortable. Have you discussed this with your dad or considered speaking with a local family law attorney about your living arrangements and potential guardianship change?
My grandma asked my dad if i can stay with her and he said no my dad doesn't really take care of me anyways he's always working and he medically neglects me and uses my bank money without even letting me know and always emotionally abuses me
I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this. In California, child abuse and neglect, including medical neglect and emotional abuse, are serious matters. Here's what you can do:
- Report the abuse to the Child Protective Services (CPS)
- Consult a local family law attorney
- Discuss with your grandma about filing a petition for guardianship
Remember, your safety and well-being matter the most. Please reach out to a trusted adult or professional for help.
I have photos and text of everything
It's great that you have evidence. In California, this can be crucial in legal proceedings. Would you like guidance on how to proceed with this evidence, possibly in a custody case or abuse report?
Yes please
It sounds like you're well-prepared. Here are the steps you can take in California:
- Keep your evidence safe and secure.
- Share it with a trusted adult or legal professional.
- It can be used in reporting to Child Protective Services or in a guardianship case.
Remember, consult a local family law attorney for specific guidance.
Ok thanks
You're welcome! I'm glad I could provide some guidance. Remember, it's important to consult with a local attorney for advice specific to your situation. Don't hesitate to reach out if you have more questions in the future. Stay safe and take care.
When i bring up the physical abuse in the past my dad would probably say "that was a long time ago" "you weren't listening
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. In California, any form of child abuse, regardless of when it occurred, is taken seriously. Here's what you can do:
- Discuss this with a trusted adult or a local family law attorney.
- Report the incident to Child Protective Services.
- Save any evidence you may have.
Please remember, your safety and well-being are paramount.