Verbal Custody Agreement Concerns

Summary

Verbal custody agreements in Utah can cause confusion. If your ex hasnt confirmed pickup, its best to collect your child at the usual time. For future security, consider drafting a written custody agreement and getting it court-approved. Document communications for clarity.

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My question is this: I only have a verbal custody agreement so far with my ex. He is supposed to pick our kid up from school today and have her through the weekend. He has, however, been ignoring my emails so I do not have written confirmation that he will be at the school today for our kid. My question is, do I pick her up at my normal time? Or do I wait to see if he gets her at his normal time and then go get her if he hasn’t?
Hi ****,
To better assist you, could you please let me know which state you are located in? This information will help me provide more specific guidance regarding custody agreements in your area.
Thank you!
Utah
Hi ****,
Given that you're in Utah and only have a verbal custody agreement, it would be prudent to pick up your child at your normal time if you have not received any confirmation from your ex. This ensures your child's safety and avoids any potential issues.
For future reference, it's advisable to have a written custody agreement. Here are some steps you can consider:
- Draft a written custody agreement with clear terms.
- Get the agreement approved by the court to make it legally binding.
- Communicate through documented means (email, text) for future arrangements.
Would you like contact information for the nearest family court in Utah for further assistance?
I have a consultation with a lawyer next week but just needed this question answered immediately
Hi ****,
Thank you for the details. Given that you have a consultation next week, it's great that you're seeking immediate advice. Based on your verbal custody agreement and the lack of communication from your ex, it's safest to pick up your child at your normal time to ensure her safety.
For future reference:
- Draft a written custody agreement.
- Get it approved by the court to make it legally binding.
- Use documented communication (email, text) for arrangements.
Would you like the contact information for the nearest family court in Utah?